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writes: I met this boy who I really like at a fair that always comes to town. We each got other people to swap numbers.Anyway we have been texting for about a year now and both said we like each other, but we have been with other people. I see him every day we say hello and that is that.I've never liked someone this much before and I think I really love him. How can I pluck up the courage and go and talk to him? But he is 6 years older than me. He is 19 and I am 13, but he is a real big trouble maker. But I really want him. PLEASE HELP xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): Ive been in your situation before, thinking oh hes perfect for me! well what a fool i was at the time. i look back and think how crazy i really was. I mean, i thought I was mature and all, but apparently I wasnt--I was soo young. I mean if hes a trouble maker...I know. Its appealing. But not when your 13 and you have sex. Well #1-one word: illegal. #2-people that lose their virginity at such a yound age have serious problems later in life. #3-You'll be called a slut. Trust me, this girl, who said she loved a guy (age 17) and went ahead and had sex with him at 12/13 was labeled as a whore the rest of high school.
I dont know, but by some small chance of luck; you might love him. But at 13 I dont really think someone can fall in true love, I dont know though. And I myself have gone through that. But i regret as it as maybe one of the craziest things iv ever thought. I realized I was just caught up in the moment. And for 2 years i was foolish, but later realized it was just lust.
That was kinda long, but I hope it helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2005): been there in december last year and we lasted 2 months and a bit. id go 4 it. if he feels the same, move on. if he dont, you dont. just work on the friendship and see where you end up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): YOUR 13!!!! come on not only is he too old for you but it is illegal for him to get involved with you..age is not an issue but it is when you are still a child..he should know better and not have got involved with texting you in the first place..let it and him go.
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reader, sden20 +, writes (18 October 2005):
you're really not gonna like this but the truth is you are too young for him. if you 2 do get together he is going to want sex,at the moment you probably think thats pretty cool,being the first out of your group to lose it,doing an adult thing,finding out what the big deal is about sex and telling your friends what its like. the truth is if u 2 r 2gether he will want sex,u'l agree(thinking he loves me this is so beautiful,etc),he'll think ur nothing but a slut (along with any1 els who finds out) and move on to an older girl that he can show to his friends and family without being ashamed of being a peado. it is hard to accept,i didn't believe it when i was ur age and ended up getting a bad name. sex is beautiful when it is between 2 people who love and respect each other. if u lose it to a carnival boy i guarentee u will regret it for the rest of your life. plus ypur future partners will not feel special if they learn u gave it away that young.and if u lose it at 13,imagine how many sexual partners you will have throughout high school.names and reputations stick. as ur body is going through these changes you have to be very responsible how u react,don't believe ur hormones,they'll get u in trouble! good luck,keep it for some1 special,that u can talk honestly with about anything.
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reader, QOTU +, writes (18 October 2005):
 Confuscious says: THERE IS NO AGE BOUNDARIES IN LOVE.
No, seriously, there isn't! I'm 16 dating someone 6 years older than me. We love each other to pieces, and he respects me. If this guy respects you and you KNOW IN YOUR HEART (I'm talking 100% percent!!!) that he wouldn't do anything to force you into anything else, then I say go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): just arrange to meet up and sort of work round asking him if you 2 will ever be more then friends then you will soon get the reply you want to hear
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 You need to slow down, missy. You have the rest of your adult life to act like a tramp if that's what you want but in the meantime why not just enjoy being a 13 year old? Have fun and laughs with your friends and give yourself the luxury of growing up at a normal pace.
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (17 October 2005):
Have you looked at the situation properly? You are 13 and he's 19. What would happen if you tow did date each other and then he wanted to have sex? Find someone your own age to date.
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reader, kelly16 +, writes (16 October 2005):
Hun i know it's not what u wana hear but his an adult, and ur still a child, i don't think u 2 sud have a relationship, the age gap at ur age is 2 much, what happens wen he wants more out of the relationship like sex ur far 2 young 2 make any of these decisions, like u said he is a real trouble maker stay away from him he will end up getting u in2 so much trouble guys like that ain't worth it. x make the right decision.
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