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I had fun and independance until I moved in with my 40-year-old boyfriend...

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Question - (27 October 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2005)
A male , *on86 writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months. After him meeting me he wanted me to move in so I moved in.

After 2 months as I knew at the time, it felt right for both of us.

Now the problem is I don't feel anything toward him anymore! I used to have my own flat and independance; now I have nothing, no family to go back to either!

What do I do? I want out! I cook, clean, iron, do his sandwiches in the morning for him and hold a full time job down too! I'm 19 he's 40. Need advice please x

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A female reader, wishes +, writes (28 October 2005):

wishes agony auntHave you tried talking to him? Telling him that you are not happy? He may not realise that you feel this way so how is he supossed to do anything about it? I think you really should talk to him before deciding anything. Best Wishes x

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A female reader, Justme83 +, writes (28 October 2005):

I know what you mean. I moved in with my boyfriend 36 and i am 22. He is controlling you. You need out but dont know where to go. Can you move in with a relative? What about getting your own place? Are you a single mother?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005):

Get a job, save the money to rent an apartment, and move out, and move on. Its that difficult and that important to your future well being. Relationships begin, and they can end, particularly when partners no longer meet the other's needs and desires. It happens. Better that it happen so soon, than much later. You will find happiness with someone else.

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