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writes: I met a girl online and we hit it off from the start. We would talk like every day for hours on end. I really fell for her (we never met) but the thing is, she is only 14 and I'm 19. The age doesn't bother me. We agreed on waiting till she was older till we were gonna meet up, but her mom found out and damn, we haven't spoken for months. Now I don't know what to do. I think about her every minute of the day. Would appreciate a little advice. I know it's a hard one to reply to, though. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kay R +, writes (28 October 2005):
I am sorry for your loss but I think it was for the best. Her mom just wanted to protect her little girl. You have to understand how her mom must have felt when she found out. I know you don’t want to hear it but truly I am sorry, you must move on. It’s for the best. I am certain that you will find someone and have a happy relationship with her. Good luck!
Kay
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (16 October 2005):
What is the point in internet relationships? There are probably plenty of good looking girls at your age around you. You can't exactly blame her mother being worried. Just move on, find someone your own age other wise you could be getting yourself in a lot more trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2005): You got to know what is right for you. You have to be honest for yourself. Just do what is right for you. Since her mother find out. DO you think it is right for you to get with her still? I am not telling you want to do. Just do want you want to do for yourself. If there is a way to reach her. Just try talking to her somehow. But you are older than her anyways.But five years difference is not too bad. Just do what you want to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2005): Harshbutfair hit the nail on the head, guy. Your letter is screaming "Watch out-Jailbait!" You are just asking for trouble and be wonderfully thankful her Mother intervened on this relationship or you could have eventually been looking at a lengthy jail term. Once the Mother get's involved and puts the "kibosh" on the relationship..you know Mom's pissed off and you better not push her buttons, any further. It's time for you to back off and get a life with a nice girl your own age. In time, with some healing you will recover and move on and this girl will be a distant memory. Just give it time, dear.
Hugs,
Irish
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (2 October 2005):
 This is madness. Seriously, I would suggest two things. 1: Stay off the Internet for a bit. It's a great tool but easily abused. 2: Stay away from young girls. This chick is 14... 14!!! 3: Get out, meet girls your own age. There is only one thing that will happen if you stay with this girl. You'll end up ****ing her and you'll get in serious trouble. The end.
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