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writes: I have been seeing a younger man for 4 months. He broke up with me to find a more age appropriate woman. Yet he keeps calling me and wanting to see me and have me in his life. He says I am his best friend, that I am nicer to him, and that he enjoys my company more than anyone he's ever known. He throws out hints that he may want me back at some point.I am afraid to be at all involved with him but seem unable to stay completely away. What should I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 November 2005):
 Younger? How much younger? It certainly sounds like you should call it quits anyway. Go your separate ways and don't look back.
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reader, MissMariah1984 +, writes (31 October 2005):
The next time you talk to him.... be straight up with him... ask him if you two are ever going to get back together. If the answer is no, then stop talking to him. It is never good to keep in contact with someone you break up with right after a break up. You should wait at least 6 months before you have ANY contact at all, so that you may allow yourselves both time to move on. Then after the 6 months you should still just have a VERY casual frienship. I would just ask him " are you wanting to get back together" and if he gives you some wishy washy answer about it then STOP CONTACT You don't deserve to be played around with and don't ever forget that good luck xoxoxo Mariah
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reader, angelicdivauk  +, writes (30 October 2005):
 hey, look I would get rid of him from your life completely! I think ge is using you as a comfort-blanket-incase he cant find someone he really wants to be with, he will just assume that he can come running back when hes heartbroken. Alternatively, try and act less attainable then he will certainly realise what he actually has. Good luck and lots of love xxx
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