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writes: I'm madly in love with my ex teacher and it's killing me. Recently he got married and he emailed me telling me all about it, when I just don't want to hear it! He says we can't be friends and yet he tells me his life story and I do the same. This probably sounds strange but I really want to let him know that I love him, either to make him more friendly towards me or make him back off. He gives me mixed signals! I'm 15 and he's 25 and we really are friends in the meaning of the word that we share everything. How do I let him know I love him? Or should I just tell him to leave me alone? I still want to be friends but it hurts everytime he mentions his wife!
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (22 October 2005):
He married his wife for a reason. What concerns me, is that you are only 15 and he should know better being 25, he was placed in a position of trust and it sounds as if he is abusing this. No good will come out of this relationship, it sounds like you have a teenage crush. You need to distance yourself as much as possible from him and get on with your life. Because dont forget he has got a wife and it is very unfair that he is telling you about his personal life...
Perhaps this is what he enjoys, there are a lot of weird people out there. Go out there and get yourself a nice bf.
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reader, buzzie  +, writes (14 October 2005):
Normally I would say a ten year age difference wasnt a big deal but 15 and 25 are two worlds apart. If you were 20 and he were 30 I would tell you to just be friends because he is married. But because you are only 15 I'm worried what still being in contact with him will do to your self esteem. I know you love the attention and you think it's real love, but if you two crossed the line and became more than friends he could lose his job or even go to jail.
Also I would question his mental health, i think it's very strange for a 25 year old man to have feelings for a 15 year old girl.
My advice, stop all contact with this man. Date other guys that are the same age as you. It will be better off for everyone in the long run.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 October 2005):
 Tell HIM to leave you alone and YOU leave him alone. He is married. He is too old for you. And it's probably against the law as well.
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reader, Stewart Terrace +, writes (13 October 2005):
keep away from him he is a man you go and experience life. he has lived his life allready please take care of your self.
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reader, pops +, writes (13 October 2005):
Don't tell him you love him. At 15 you probably still don't really understand what love means. And, he's a married man. You owe his wife that respect. Tell him to cool the contacts with you. You can remain friends, but there should be no attempt on your part to pursue a personal relationship. Find someone else to learn to love. And, give yourself some time to grow up. You will be an adult the rest of your life. Enjoy being a teenager for a few more years, Please.
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