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Archived questions from: January, 2022 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriends dads wedding is making me feel resentful and bitter.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

31 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this is a little bit of a long story, and I am very much aware I may be judged as selfish and attention seeking. I just needed to get this out of my system as I feel like it’s going to drive me mad, and friends tend to be more biased in a situation. I guess what I’m trying ... (1524 words)

Should I find out who made these accusations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

31 January 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - after working for a number of years at a car business. I decided to resign and move onto other things. people were sad to see me go, where others were pleased I was going. someone from work has said, who I don’t know that I’m slagging off their company to another person. ... (104 words)

My boyfriend and I are having difficulty with intercourse

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 707 days ago

31 January 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - So this might be a little graphic, so I apologise in advance. This is kind of awkward for me, so please be patient… So, my boyfriend and I tried to have intercourse the other day, but it was very unsuccessful. We can’t seem to fit him into me, and I’m not sure why. I’ve had sex ... (146 words)

Should I tell my mom what I seen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

31 January 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 24. My mom is 44 she and divorced. has been happier and dressing more attractively lately. one day when I was looking after her garden I came in to get a drink and I saw her lying nude with some guy. It looked like she was having sex. I returened back quietly so she woul... (82 words)

What are the perks of moving in together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

30 January 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 11 months and has invited me to move in with her. I am thinking of it. We are both 26. Perhaps those who have moved in together can give some advice. What are the Perks of Moving in Together? Do most of you who have moved in together ... (69 words)

Dont stay in troubled relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

29 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I was engaged, we were together until maybe 3 weeks ago. We were together about 5 years in total. It started out beautifully. He was charismatic, very sweet and loving. The last two years were terrible. Alot of emotional abuse. I was called most names ... (183 words)

Should I let my teenaged daughter date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

29 January 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I understand that girls will always be more mature than boys. Naturally, girls physically mature faster as they go through puberty earlier than their male counterparts. This brings me to my daughter who is a sophomore in high school. She is smart get good grades and I feel mat... (131 words)

I am very nervous about getting naked in front of my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

29 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 34 year old female looking to take things to the next level with my current boyfriend. I have been divorced for 18 months and was with my ex for almost ten years. Even though I was married, I am rather inexperienced. I have only ever had sex with my ex husband. I ha... (422 words)

Can the friendship still survive or is it definitely over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

29 January 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - after eight years at a company I worked for, being sworn at and being on poor wages. I resigned from, as the assistant boss was disrespectful to me and has no compassion for other people. a female collegue who I’ve known for many years, decided to jump ship. I was sad to see ... (419 words)

Do I tell my mom that I am dating her friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

29 January 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m a 31-year-old guy, single, normal dating history. A few months ago, a friend of my mom’s called me and asked if I’d like to get together for coffee. I had met her at my mom’s house a couple of weeks prior and we had a nice talk. I thought she wanted to talk about my mom o... (397 words)

Would a tall woman go out with a shorter guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

29 January 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Im 5’4’ and like a woman who is about 6'4" she has an athletic frame from sports and works out regularly. I can honestly say I like her figure and personality.im thinking about asking her out. Any advice for asking out a taller woman? Would a taller woman go out with a shorte... (60 words)

What can I do with my hands when kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

29 January 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - The girl I'm dating is great. She has nice hair, smile, and hips. What are some things I can do with my hands that will make her feel when kissing? There may be better things than leaving them at my sides. ... (49 words)

What do these girls want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

29 January 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Do girls actually want you to touch or flirt with them in the stores? Are there any signs girls give to show they have interest? I seem to run into girls who seem to get very close to me, even bend down in front of me or bump into me at stores but I’m to shy to make any move... (77 words)

What do they feel?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

28 January 2022 (M)

age - what do cheating wives think when they are about to feel strangers cock fo the first time... (17 words)

I like. Him but don't want to date him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I have liked a guy for 7 years but i still don't want to date him. When we don't talk i miss him and i feel happy and good when we do. I don't want him to get too close to me but sometimes i want his attention and time too.What is wrong?... (53 words)

My husband says I am at fault for not trusting him but is he the one who is really at fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Sort of beside myself. My husband of 9 years says I have anxiety and it is my fault that I do not trust him, because I have anxiety. But I think the fault is his. I recently found a number on his phone under Fed Ex and it was a young woman...NOT Fed Ex... when I called it... (439 words)

How Should I Respond to My Boyfriend's Sister After a Bad Conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Context: I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. It's been tough with his family. I got along with one of his sisters and at one point considered her a friend. The other sister, I've never gotten along with but kept things cordial. His family talks a lot of crap so I've ... (728 words)

No sex in 27 years. Will I be able to have it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age - I havent had sex for 27 years due to my husband being unable. Now that I ama widow what if I want sex with another man? will it be possible?... (30 words)

How do I be assertive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm finding it hard to stand my ground in situations where I need to be assertive. This wasn't always an issue for me. But I think, like most people, lockdown has wore me down. I'm not sure how to build myself up to be able to handle confrontation with peopl... (67 words)

Wife no longer interested and I need relief

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

28 January 2022 (M)

age - I am 87+ and can no longer get an erection... I try masturbating but dont always ejaculate.. what can I do? still married but wife ot interested anymore...... (30 words)

Why do I feel embarrassed that I enjoyed anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

28 January 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I tried anal sex with my husband for the first time the other morning and actually quite enjoyed it. But every time I think of it I cringe inside and I don’t know why. I just feel really embarrassed. My husband has only mentioned it once and that was straight after asking if I ... (371 words)

Married 8 years and don't like having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

27 January 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 8 years now, but i don't like having sex.... I have pretended through out the marriage, used some lubricants and got on with it so to say. My husband has speculated that maybe i am gay because i never seem to be interested in sex... Alcohol has helped i... (229 words)

Is there anything my husband and I can do to help our sons?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

27 January 2022 (F)

age - I have two sons. John who is 39 years old and Rob who is 37 years old. I always thought that my sons were close. Rob is gay and has been officially together for 12 years (dating for five years, married for 7 years). But they have been friends since middle school. R... (322 words)

Why is she lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

26 January 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, so I'd like to ask what to do as I was told awhile ago my partner was taking people home after work, not work colleagues shes taking men back to there home after her shift and she works in a pub. The pubs closing time is 12am midnight but shes not been coming home till ... (344 words)

I think my husband has a crush on a younger female friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

26 January 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice about my husband, I think he is crushing on a younger female friend of ours. He always compliments her when he'd had a bit to drink then says he's trying to insult her as a joke! and I've seen him staring quite a bit. I have spoken to him about this a... (102 words)

I want to experience first love in high school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

26 January 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - high school is the time when I want to experience my first love. I want to feel these new feelings. Having my first kiss is something I want to experience with my bf in high school. I know it shouldn’t be rushed. I feel im ready and excited about it. are there are some thi... (69 words)

The more I know about his life, the more I want to walk away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

25 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m in a relationship with a man with kids. I don’t have any and not thinking of wanting anytime soon. I haven’t met his kids and I don’t want to push him on meeting them. The more I get to know the situation with his life, the more I feel like walking away. His youngest ... (303 words)

How to cope with losing a man I never had

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

25 January 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, Looking for some advice / help and opinions on how to cope with a man who has deeply hurt me. I can’t seem to get him out of my mind but crazy as it sounds we were not together. I am afraid this is a long story as I wanted to explain it all so apologies in adv... (1639 words)

Should I tell my husband to have sex with other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

25 January 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Would it be stupid to let my husband have sex with other women because I never want it anymore? I’ve been through the menopause and it’s pretty much killed off my sex drive. For over 2 years I’ve had no sexual desires at all and to be honest the thought of it just doesn’t ... (506 words)

Is my partner a sex addict

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

25 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my partner is a sex addict. I cant be sure but having read online articles I am finding alot of matching information that match his habits. I'll give you a run down. My partner likes to masturbate at least ten times a week. His sex drive cannot be sated. We will h... (314 words)

Tips for penetration? Please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

24 January 2022 (F)

Have I been too forgiving?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

24 January 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I’ve given my sister the benefit of the doubt after she tried to kiss my boyfriend on New Year’s Eve because she was drunk but have I been too soft on her? All of my friends seem to think so. Me and my boyfriend had a party at ours with a load of family and friends and afte... (485 words)

I'm worried because I can no longer keep up with my husband sexually

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

24 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know why but I feel really insecure because I don’t want sex as much anymore and my husband may end up leaving me because of it. Last week during a boozy get together with my husband and another couple we got talking about our sex lives. It wasn’t the first time, we’d... (561 words)

Should I ask my wife to cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

24 January 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it completely absurd to fantasize about your wife doing something with another man (ex hand job, BJ, just kissing, intercourse)? My wife is extremely attractive, younger than me, and I have no desire to be with anyone else. However, I do sometimes fantasize about watching ... (94 words)

How do I let go of the bad memories of toxic family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

24 January 2022 (F) age 41-50 - After decades of bad family relationships, I gathered the strength to leave some toxic people behind. I won’t bore you with details, as I am sure that you can imagine what narcissists can do to you if you let them. Especially if they have the “family-card” to play whenever it ... (292 words)

Should I sue for discrimination and loss of earnings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

23 January 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been at a sports company, coming up to nine years. enjoy the job I do and sending off football teams across the country. the assistant boss who has a sister, her sister has grassed on me, because I’ve supposedly called her some name and is trying to sabotage my job and ... (255 words)

What are some fun and romantic things we can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

23 January 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a guy for about 6 months. He has been there for me and always kind and good to me. He is always been comforting, and supports me. He never puts pressure on me. I have reached that moment that i want to surprise him with a romantic dinner at my home. I th... (145 words)

I feel lost and spend all my time working

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

23 January 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so lost. After my working week, there is nothing to do. I spend weekend working in my 2nd job and cleaning and preparing for next week. This cycle continues week in and week out. I did go away last weekend with friends but why have I just gone back to feeling depresse... (97 words)

Is it ok to date a woman of another race?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

23 January 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been interested in and dating this fantastic black (I am white) woman . we have been dating over the last couple of months, and to the point of considering sex. Is it ok to consider sex with a black woman? Might there be a stigma attached? I know white woman are ... (104 words)

I cant shake thefeeling that my partner is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

22 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't shift the feeling that my partner may be cheating. Wee have been together for 3 years now and in a lot of ways he is really good. However he is odd when it comes to his phone or social media. Anytime he goes out of room he takes his phone, I asked to use it once and... (194 words)

We're in our 80s and my wife is becoming aggressive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

22 January 2022 (M)

age - i am in my 80's and have been married for over 60 my wife is getting very aggresive and whilst I try io get out of her way { probably for 4 hours} this doesnt do anything for the situation. These arguements with my wife shouting and banging around can go for 3 days including ... (151 words)

My boss is making my work place miserable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

22 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I have a situation where I don’t know what to do. My boss hates me why I don’t know. My boss has favorites I work for an apartment complex and there are several properties that this company owns. I am the manager and I have a leasing agent and a Maintance ma... (352 words)

My stingy friend blew off my birthday

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

21 January 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is so stingy. And kind of selfish. She’s never offered to pay for anything and always finds excuses to get out of having to but never refuses and even takes advantage when others are generous with her. She also always comes up with excuses in order to get her way o... (941 words)

I have allowed everyone to walk all over me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

21 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I was too nice and too non confrontational to people in my life. I am recently married. Suddenly I'm coming to a full realization and pressure of allowing my parents, friends and many others disrespect me. Sometimes it's also my husband. I am at a loss of how to change this o... (315 words)

Does yoga make sex better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

21 January 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - wellness blogs recommend yoga for a better sex life, as well as personal accounts of the practice improving sexual experience. How can yoga make for a better sex life and better sex? What yoga moves can help with sex? ... (43 words)

Do other men like to see their wives flash their breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

20 January 2022 (M)

age - When weareout on vacation my wife likes to leave her blouse half open without a bra or halter on. It gets me aroused and I see many men sneak a peak any other men like their wife to flash?... (39 words)

My husband has quit four good paying jobs this year and I am tired of it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

20 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pissed my husband has had 4 good paying jobs with in the last year. He always ends up quitting because he is upset about something. He always finds drama at his jobs and he always finds something to complain about. He never takes my advice when I tell him to not tell ... (305 words)

Can I ask out my tutor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

20 January 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been single for almost 2 years now and in college. Well there's a Russian woman that is my tutor at that I really like and want to ask out. I'm wondering if its ok to ask out my tutor. She is smart, super cute, and I like her Russian way. Is it ok to ask her... (73 words)

All his conversations revolve around money

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

19 January 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 6 months. He's obsessed with money. He believes he will be very rich and says it's in his DNA lol. However it disturbs me because that's all he thinks about. Most conversations revolve around money. To me yes, we need money but ... (118 words)

My parents don't like my LDR boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

19 January 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I uhm hi...these days I have been very stressed with school and stuff. I have a strict Asian parents and they doesn't like my long distance relationship boyfriend, what should I do? I love him so much and we've known each other for a long time now. My parents took my ... (184 words)