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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm confused by what this man said.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

31 May 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently started talking to someone in a friendly way , he lives in another city to me and asked me, if I am I going to keep him up an night if he stays at mine as I said id like to spend the night with him, im just wondering if he will have meant this in a sexual way as I ... (88 words)

Sometimes I wish I could just text people and let them know how I feel.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

31 May 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Sometimes when I feel sad , its normally when I feel like messaging the people who I wish I could be truthful to or opening up to someone. in situations like this I often feel more inclined to say something I regret as well or do something I regret but its mainly me wanting to ... (514 words)

I'm not happy with my girlfriend's appearance and lack of self care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1630 days ago

31 May 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - If I’m not happy with my gfs appearance do I have another choice rather than leaving her? We were both in good shape when we got together few years ago but she is now borderline obese. Also our eating habits are opposite. She has this obsession with food but I don’t. She... (172 words)

Is this guy trying to make me pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

31 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone This is my first time posting on this, and my friend told me its very helpfull, im not sure how much details to go into but this has really confused me and have asked a few people but not really had a answer lol, So a guy im seeing after sex i was just chillin... (195 words)

Are our neighbours taking their stress out on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I was just wondering if I had made the best decision… Five years ago, my husband and I struck a friendship with a couple that is about 12 years older. They live in the same village where we bought a house, where we hope to move permanently one day... (1438 words)

What should I do about my passive aggressive sister in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

31 May 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I travelled cross country to visit his brother and his brothers family (wife and kids) over Christmas holiday. It was the first time I would really get to spend one on one time with them. I get along very well with all the rest of my husband's family, but with ... (837 words)

My wife says my vest is embarrassing.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1632 days ago

31 May 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a TV show about a motorcycle club called Sons of anarchy. I bought a vest like the ones worn on the show by the actors. I have a motorcycle and I'm such a fan of that TV show. My wife says it would be embarrassing to wear it as people would make fun of me in secret. ... (90 words)

I've met a guy I like, but he is friends with my ex baby daddy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

31 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m trying to decide if a guy is interested in me. He is a divorced single Dad. The issue is he is friends with my ex baby daddy. We saw each other out with our kids. His daughter is friends with my oldest daughter. So I asked if she could come over for a play date. So he came ... (142 words)

Being in lockdown has forced me to see how unhealthy our relationship is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

30 May 2020 (F) age 41-50 - Hi all! I would appreciate some advice on how to handle an issue with my husband or rather a problem hes has that is seriously influencing my life. In a nutshell, he has some problems with relationships with people (I understand WHY). Recently, I've come to realize ... (1242 words)

What can I do about my life and wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

29 May 2020 (M) age - Over 43 yrs of faithful marriage she requires separate bedrooms handles all financial transactions accumulate over 100,000 dollars in credit card debts that I know of and no sex for 3 years now .... what to do No names please ... (45 words)

I need tips for dealing with the mother of my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1631 days ago

29 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me almost two months ago, and his mom keeps contacting me. Why would she do it? I always had the feeling she didn't like me during the first years we were together as we have very different views on things, but we were amicable. O... (255 words)

Am I screwing my friend over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

29 May 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a message from an old friend asking if I had ideas to pitch to a company he has just signed up to as a freelancer. They are a production company looking for show ideas and pay commission if an idea is chosen. My friend said if any ideas I came up with were chosen he'd... (477 words)

The more I try to better myself the nastier my friend becomes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

27 May 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks in advance for answers to my guestion. This is a great site. I have been friends with this paticular friend for about ten years. I cannot say that this is the only friendship I have been evaluating lately. I have a great job and have started a post graduate degree a... (343 words)

I have an enormous crush on my doctor. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

26 May 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my situation. I met my new GP a few months ago and she's been amazing. She's a great doctor. She gives me prescriptions for my current health issue. She sends me to specialists when I need them. She's always available for appointments. She calls me when she has to ... (595 words)

My wife and I fight about laundry! I mean REALLY fight about it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

26 May 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife doesn't like to do laundry. She says she doesn't like the noise (we have a small house so doing a load of laundry permeates) and apparently doesn't like any other aspect of it either. She will let her laundry pile up until she has nothing clean left and then go into ... (790 words)

I'm mourning a friendship that may have dissolved.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

25 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to have very regular contact with a female friend whom I will name as "A" who attended the same church as me and we coordinated a youth ministry together with other team members. I was close to A and so were the other team members and children who visited her house. O... (175 words)

Is there a difference in the way a wife and a mistress have sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

25 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been meaning to ask this question for a while now. There are a lot of posts on here about married men cheating and I'm sure we all know or have heard of men who have mistresses; usually the mistress is more sexually "available", if I could put it that way. That being sai... (226 words)

Blocked, I'm angry at how all the blame is on me, should I send a letter and a gift?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 1637 days ago

24 May 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a girl and she has a boyfriend, who she got just a few weeks after we met. Turns out she wanted to see both of us. But recently finally, the boyfriend found out her secret. She was out with me, and he got security to bget into her room where he read all her private ... (215 words)

Late nights, lack of sleep causes breakup

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

24 May 2020 (M)

age 51-59 - I have recently split up with my girlfriend and asked her why. Her excuse was to many late nights. I said what do you mean? Her reply was I can't sleep if your not in bed with me. I Replied with twice I went to the liver room to watch tv as she kept tossing and turning. I have ... (140 words)

Can't stop playing with myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

24 May 2020 (M)

age 18-21 - I have an embarrassing problem. I can't stop playing with myself. I've been been doing it since I was 4. preschool. I figured out it was bad when I was that little because I got caught all the time and was sent to the prayer room.we have a prayer room in our house. Anyway I ... (248 words)

Is she smitten with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1637 days ago

24 May 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - I am confused and more unsure than I have ever been. I have always been a good guy who is confident and I always know what to do. But with this lovely woman I am unsure. We work together, and she is in a relationship she is dissatisfied with. When I first became inter... (367 words)

Lockdown causing problems in our relationship and I'm not sure how to fix things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

24 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, hope everyone is staying safe and coping well during the pandemic. So I'm in a relatively new relationship, about 6 months with my boyfriend who is 1 year older than me. We met on a dating app. I thought we had got on well when we would message everyday and he ... (484 words)

How can I do what's right for me knowing my parents won't approve

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

23 May 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently started a job in a care home on a rolling contract so it may come to an end in a few weeks, although It will most likely be extended . im sadly not enjoying it all and it is way more tiring then I thought and the hours I really long and I leave with a headache ... (607 words)

My married boyfriend is moving to Panama for 6 months and is leaving me behind. He wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) age 41-50 - I know I won't get any sympathy here but I am looking for some advice. Mistresses have nowhere to go. My married lover (he is more like a boyfriend now) is going to Panama with his wife in September to spend 6 months out of the year there, every year. I knew this was going t... (335 words)

I feel trapped in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1642 days ago

23 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I’ve been in a long term relationship for 8 years we have a coming up 6 year old son my partner 3 years ago suddenly started smoking weed he was good looking and smart when we met the relationship was great we both were working we went on holidays but Now fast forward ... (160 words)

Does this man like me or need space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

23 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - This boy told me he likes me n he started holding me n kissing me. He stays the night n hold me. In morning he left early n didn't hear from him in a couple days. He came up to me n I said u didn't say nothing just left. He said I need to get on my feet. I saidI understand he ... (92 words)

Did I emotionally cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1641 days ago

22 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Some background. I’m in my mid 20s, my boyfriend is early 30s. I went through a very tough breakup. This was at a time in my life where I was also experiencing four deaths of people close to me. I was an absolute mess to say the least. Throughout this I became closer with one ... (610 words)

Why did he ghost me after acting so insecure ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

21 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking.... (297 words)

How can I remain upbeat when the father of my child creates conflict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1643 days ago

21 May 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - Experiencing ongoing conflict with the farther of my child who I left over ten years ago. On yesterday's date, I contacted a helpline for dealing with domesticated issues regards to communication taken place. As a result,they referred me to contacting the police, given ... (491 words)

Commitments to my work and my compromised family conflict.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

21 May 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - Currently i am trying to juggle my personal life with work. They keep clashing, my boss calls meetings always towards the end of the day which means i am late getting home. I have 3 disabled family members waiting for me to get home, carers help during the day but if i'm late ... (159 words)

Writing on behalf of my friend about his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1642 days ago

21 May 2020 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone, this is my first post so please bare with me. I am writing on behalf of my friend (M 22) who had a situation with his ex (F 21) recently which I am very concerned about. They have known each other for about 8 years so their history is quite extensive. They met ... (970 words)

I'm in the US, sister in UK is making some rash decisions, how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1643 days ago

21 May 2020 (F)

age - I moved to the us 16 years ago. My family is back in the UK and my sister had a diagnosis for early onset Alzheimer's a few years ago. Her and her partner have broke up and she says she wants to move back to London - she lived there for some years but left and moved back to ... (124 words)

Girlfriend refuses to discuss our relationship.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1642 days ago

21 May 2020 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend got drunk one day after an argument. She met up with a friend and they took a guy back to her place. Her friend left but the guy stayed. The next day she said nothing happened and told me they were both naked in the bed. She also told me she text him to say not to ... (223 words)

Where did I mess up with the LDR who faded on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1643 days ago

20 May 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I first met a couple of years ago, casually hanged out a couple of times, then went back to our own countries on the opposite sides of the world. A few months later, we briefly met one more time when I travelled to her country; we had a great time checking out art ... (550 words)

I worry I am just this woman's plaything.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1643 days ago

20 May 2020 (M)

age - Been seeing someone for about four months for only one day a week, she don't have any more time for me, it's really good that one day a week, I told her I looked her up on Facebook, she got really mad an said not to do that again and block me, am I being to nosey, looking her ... (114 words)

My feelings have grown since blowing off a girl I met in college.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1644 days ago

19 May 2020 (M)

age 26-29 - I always had intense trust issues that lead me to stay away from relationships. In fact I've never been in a relationship till now, perhaps because of that. This also lead me to not make many friends and for some reason I maintained distance from girls too, fearing myself ... (593 words)

A close friend has fallen in love, and it leaves me bored!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1646 days ago

18 May 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - One of my closest and dearest friends has in the last year entered into a relationship. The guy, he's got with is absolutely perfect for him. And I see them being together for a good long time. His whole life now revolves around his relationship. His boyfriend lives in a ... (305 words)

He criticizes my driving and it’s wrecking my confidence and ability!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1644 days ago

18 May 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Heeeellpppp, i am a long time driving vihicles already. Im driving bycicles, real motorbike sometimes with 1 or 2 behind me as passenger plus my baby dog infront basket ( please dont get mad" that is normal in asia, when your small baby dog is train to that since 1st month old ... (363 words)

How do I deal with the incredibly annoying and somewhat creepy flatmate that I'm stuck with during lockdown?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1647 days ago

16 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently living away from home in the UK, sharing a flat with three others. Unfortunately, due to the coronavirus lockdown two of them have gone to live with their friends nearby a couple of months ago, so it's just me and a male flatmate whom I have been living with since ... (828 words)

I don't consider myself to be gay but what was the homosexual experience with my cousin all about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1646 days ago

16 May 2020 (M) age 26-29 - This thing happened to me when I was 13 years old. I used to meet my cousins on vacations when we had a large family get-together. I had this particular male cousin who was of the same age as me. We both never had any girlfriends ever and were completely inexperienced about sex ... (404 words)

Married for 5 years and I'm unhappy and don't feel desired

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1646 days ago

16 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hope you can help me with my marriage and whether this is normal. I have been married 5 years. We have a 3 year old and I have 2 stepchildren. My husband is a really wonderful father and works really hard. I work full time as well. I don’t feel appreciated, listened... (208 words)

This guy I've met shares a house, and sometimes meals, with his ex wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1649 days ago

14 May 2020 (F)

age - I have met someone He is divorced and has 3 grown children the youngest is 20 and still in college. The ex wife and he share a house he lives in the basement and she lives on the first floor. They sometimes share meals and when daughter comes home they go out to dinner as a ... (100 words)

My partner's family never acknowledge my birthday

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1643 days ago

13 May 2020 (F)

age - Hi everyone, I am 63 and my guy is 65. We both own our own businesses, both fairly healthy. No children. We got together six years ago and both had no children from before. He lives with me in my house and they have often visited here and spent a lot of time here visiting us ... (388 words)

How do I move on from the fixation on my crush

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

13 May 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have a crush on a guy. We were meant to meet for a walk a two weeks ago but a misunderstanding/miscommunication happened and we didn't end up meeting. He asked if I could meet the following day but I said i was busy with clients. He hasn't asked me out again since then,... (290 words)

Why is my ex fiance distancing himself from me? He wanted to be friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

12 May 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all... My current boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. I was really heart broken. So, I reached out to my ex-fiancé for advice. Him and I haven’t spoken in a year. My ex-fiancé told me he wasn’t in love with me and left me for his ex. His ex didn’t want him. So, he ... (279 words)

Gentlemen, how many likes do you get on dating apps?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

12 May 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - As the title of my post asks - how many Likes does the average male homo sapien get from women on dating apps? A few months ago my sister helped me create an online dating profile. She helped take my profile photos, reviewed my profile and then gave me the thumbs up. Af... (199 words)

Wife no longer desires sex. Do I just go without?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

12 May 2020 (M)

age - How did I get into this? I am a retired/disabled mechanical engineer. My disability is neuropathy, but I do not have diabetes. I live with extreme pain everyday. I married my Wife in 1993, and I married my best friend. I love her with all my heart. When we first got t... (474 words)

I'm 17 and have no breasts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

12 May 2020 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 17 and have literally no breasts!!!! Most of the boys and girls who I'm friends with mock me about it and I'm the only one in my friend group who doesn't have a boyfriend. All my friend are like D cups or C cups and I'm barely an A cup. What should I do, please give me ... (61 words)

I don't know if my husband is insecure or its something deeper?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

11 May 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am married and my husband was lovely and attentive, but now we are married he wants me to change the way I dress, not wear makeup and not see friends. He gives me money for shopping, but I do not have my name on the bank account even though my wages are paid ... (111 words)

I'm dating my best friend but I'm not attracted to him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

11 May 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID, I have never had the best of luck with picking men , I have dated the narcissist,the insecure and the controlling. My best friend of 12 yrs told me about six months that he had developed feelings for me, at first I felt like he ruined our friendship but I thought ... (143 words)