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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Whenever we disagree he brings up everything that has ever made him mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

30 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating 20 months. He said God brought us together but this relationship has been emotionally draining. He has such a quit temper that even when I say things that are right I'm still wrong. He is not a person that puts his hands on you but he ... (585 words)

I just want to know that I am sane. He made me feel crazy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

29 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted about this particular man some years back. I met this European man on a dating website. For almost 4 years of whatsapp messages, we have only video called on Skype twice, the first video call was both our ideas and the second video call I was literally almost ... (739 words)

Was I too slow in making the right move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

28 April 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I met a girl like two month back and from then we started chatting and talking. I really like her even from the first time I saw her, I decided to take things further slowly(from being friend to relationship). But one thing I noticed is that she never talks ... (166 words)

I feel trapped I don't want to hurt him but I want to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

28 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I think its Time to break up with my bf of 4 yrs He is not a bad guy and we had alot of teething problems when we first got together but we fell in love and he moved in with me and my kids. We had a baby together but during the pregnancy he wasnt as suppprrive as he should have ... (337 words)

I had sex with another man because its what my husband wanted and now he's mad

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

28 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I fix my marriage? We are married 5yrs and both age 27. For 2yrs my husbby has had a fantasy for me to fuck a hung man. I have resisted. We have used this as fantasy sex talk. Fri night we went out together to a bar and met friends. Later us, 2 cples, and 5 sngle frnds ... (201 words)

Is it possible for a guy in his late teens/early 20s to fantasise or admire a woman in her late 40s/early 50s??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

27 April 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - Younger Men to Older Woman age gap. - Is it possible for a guy in his late teens/early 20s to fantasise or admire a woman in her late 40s/early 50s?? I get along well with a young man who is from a different country, much younger than me and from a different genera... (113 words)

What rules/boundaries/routines to set out when finding a housemate/flatmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

26 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, simple questions really, but still needs detailed thought and I’m struggling to think of everything. When finding a housemate/flatmate what am I supposed to look for? Also, what are the rules/boundaries/routines/etc to set out? Do you set them beforehand or just after ... (101 words)

Do you believe in reincarnation or soulmates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

26 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Do any of you believe in reincarnation or soulmates? My partner and I have such a deep connection that was so instant that it was like we've known each other for years. So I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar. Thanks in advance ... (62 words)

I'd really like a hobby. Should I take a comedy course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

26 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - i often put myself down but i can give at least a list of ten things i like about myself and for any of the other cupid users i hope this doesnt come across as big headed but i do think i am naturally a funny , witty creative person . in the past 5 years or so since seconda... (487 words)

Is it possible that a man could be so nervous that he can't stop shivering around women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

26 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing this man for about 2 months, everything was going great but I'm not sure how can i make him more comfortable around me whenever we are on a date. I have more experience with men but he claims that I'm the first girl who went on a date with. So basically when we ... (159 words)

How do I deal with my husband's weekend depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

26 April 2019 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, So my husband seems to be currently suffering from weekend depression. He works hard, split shifts, and is exhausted. He is stressed about money too. During the week, apart from being tired and complaining alot - he seems to be ok. But when Friday hits - he spirals ... (182 words)

I have trouble when living with someone on how to go about getting them to pay part of the bills

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

25 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am a thirty year old parent of 2 who has had a few short term relationships over the last ten years, but for the most part have lived by myself. It seems that once things start to progress into living together, that i really struggle with charging them a portion of ... (203 words)

I know I can't trust him again but I also want to tell him let's work on it and can figure it out. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

25 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for about 2.5 months who is going through a separation. He has treated me better than anyone I've been with before and I was really starting to imagine a life with him. The gestures he made, how he made me feel, our connection.. it almost seemed too good ... (360 words)

What happens when male and female best friends share a bed for the night?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

25 April 2019 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently moved into my own apartment. It's a one bedroom and I don't have any furniture. My long time female friend plans to stay over this weekend so that she can 1. see the place and 2. not have to go all the way home after we watch a movie this weekend. She lives far out ... (203 words)

Why do people who know your struggles try and tear u down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

25 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. So 2 years ago I was diagnosed with depression and body dysmophia i also suffer from social anxiety but i started medication and got myself out to the gym and i feel great 80% of the time which is amazing for me. Anyways, my body dysmophia started from a young ... (441 words)

My husband loves looking at other women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

25 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband loves looking at other women. He used to go online and ask them to send him pictures. I asked him to stop. He stopped now that we got married 8 months ago.he has posters all over his garage and playboy and looks at pictures on facebook. I know i am jealous. I know ... (93 words)

How do you stop wanting something that you can never have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

25 April 2019 (M)

age 22-25 - I guess I’ll start with a bit of a background. My cousin is the son of my aunt, my father’s sister, now he’s 18 and I’m 18. We spent a lot of time together when we were children because our families lived very close each to other. We were great friends and then his family moved ... (646 words)

He's 30 years older than me and doesn't want sex as much as I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

25 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m engaged to a man 30 years older than me. We’ve been together seven years almost eight. The only thing we’ve had minor discussions about is sex. I want sex more often than him. We’ve never done it twice in one day even! He’s the only man I’ve had sex with and I’m ... (80 words)

The way my husband argues with me and handles conflict is very difficult for me to handle

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

24 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together over two years. We have had a lot of good times and not so good times. I am expected to be submissive and I try hard but it’s not always easy. Sometimes he gets mad over small things. It wouldn’t bother me but it’s the way he handles ... (162 words)

Should I let this guy go since he treats any kind of way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, so I met this guy in september 2017. Someone told him about me from his church. He was looking for someone to help promote his business. After he sent his phone number by someone from the church and kept sending messages for me to call him I finally told them to give ... (648 words)

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but when he was down and hurting I ... (465 words)

Is Rimming really as risky as they say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so this is a bit embarrassing, which is why I'm posting this anonymously but basically me and my boyfriend have been 'experimenting' in the bedroom lately and decided to try anal sex/play. I wasn't a fan of the sex as it hurt quite a bit but what I did like was when he ... (338 words)

My partner is giving his children extra money and I'm not happy about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with a man for a little over 2 years now. He has two children from a previous marriage. He pays child support for these children. Everyone gets along, there are no hard feelings about anything. On the children's most recent school break, their mother surpr... (260 words)

My SIL is trying to cut me out of her children's lives saying I am the reason she has bad relationships with them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am really struggling. Since the day they were each born, I have been like a second Mom to my nieces. I have such special relationships with each of them, am the Godmother of #2 and I love them like they were my own kids. Throughout their lives, I have lived 10 mi... (816 words)

What is the best way to reject this persistent guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

23 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy at work (we work in separate departments) and he is always trying to chat me up. I thought he just wanted to be friends a "friendly co-worker" relationship, but I bought up about a vacation trip and said I went with someone and his whole face dropped, he kept ... (161 words)

Cock Teasing Wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

23 April 2019 (M)

age 36-40 - Wife, with already killer body, lost 12 lbs on some diet shes doing and started wearing tighter clothes when she goes out. This was fine until she started wearing more revealing clothes and her trips out became longer and later at night. I tried to talk to her but she became ... (98 words)

No sex and I don't feel appreciated. How do I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

22 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my OH have been together for almost 10 years and have two children 7 and 5. For the most part, it's been great, obviously ups and down but nothing really major. Sex has always been a bit of a problem with us, it's like we have never really been in sync. Only once, th... (402 words)

He doesn't seem to want to be my friend after I 'rejected' him, is he playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

22 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! So I became friends with this guy about a year ago, we work in similar types of jobs (not together) and we get on, mostly speaking through mutual friends. He's very different to me, I'm quite a girly girl, and he's quite nerdy, but we have good conversation. He's ... (859 words)

Should I respond to and forgive a homophobic friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

22 April 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Time ago I had a friend. We knew each other for a long time, almost 10 years. All this time I was in the closet but then I met this guy and everything got serious between us and that was when I decided I wanted to finally come out. My friend was the first person I came ou... (292 words)

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

22 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a relationship with me. Just as things ... (460 words)

I think my friend is after someone I want to date. She has a reputation of doing this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

21 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my friend is chatting up the man she knows i want to be with. I have been talking to a man off a dating site had many dates and seeing how things go. My friend was on the same site but left because she thought she found someone but it didnt work out. The man im dating ... (187 words)

I feel my husband and his friends are exploiting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

21 April 2019 (F) age 36-40 - Hello and thank you My husband is black and I’m white. He says somethings that bother me sometimes. His dream is to be very weathly. Nothing wrong with that. He lives large likes the finer things however those things come at my cost. He likes the newest cells the fancy ... (176 words)

What's wrong with me? I've always been conditioned to want certain things out of life but none of them fit my idea of my most honest self

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

21 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I accept who I am? for the last 30 years all I have been conditioned to want is 1. Get married 2. Buy a house 3. Make babies and compete with your neighbor to show who is happier - fancier - richer etc . My family is quite dysfunctional and abusive verbally a... (447 words)

How could I allow this guy to use me for sex?! I feel awful and I've lost all trust in men!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

20 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve recently came out of a long term relationship so I’m very new to dating.when I went out with friends I met a great guy, we chatted a lot and there was an instant spark between us, we exchanged numbers, we spoke a lot over the phone for about a week getting to know each ... (508 words)

What's wrong with my friend? Or am I not reading him correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

20 April 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Can a friend be acting different or is it just me. I have a friend from childhood. Every time something good is happening in my life he seems to disappear. For example he heard some bad news from a mutual friend that I had lost my job. And as a result from the same day he has ... (240 words)

It looks like he's lost interest after we had sex. How do I get him interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

20 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy a couple years ago (let's call him Adam), and it was immediately clear he liked me, but I had a boyfriend. We hung out a handful of times over the next 2 years, but I kept it friendly. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, so Adam and I started hanging out ... (398 words)

How would you feel if your doctor hugged you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

20 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - My medical doctor started giving me hugs at the end of our regular appointments. The first time he just initiated a hug; the second time he said "I hope you don't mind me hugging you. I have been working with him for about a year. How would you feel if your doctor hugged yo... (59 words)

How do we move past what I did?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1985 days ago

20 April 2019 (M)

age 51-59 - Just a little background to begin.Married for 16 years,2 teenage kids,work and money have been a huge source of stress for the past year.My wife is often gone with one of my children out of town for sports most weekends for the past 2 years. over the past 9 months i noticed a ... (382 words)

How do I avoid talking about my family when it comes to dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

19 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I avoid my family or topics of my family now that I am back into the dating game ? My family is highly dysfunctional and untrustworthy; both my parents verbally abused me when I was younger and nothing was ever good enough. To this day they are physically abusi... (323 words)

I looked in fiance's tablet to find out he lied to me about where he was. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

19 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé plays soccer once a week with our mutual friends and also invites his colleagues. I tried it a few times but wasn’t into it and stopped going. Up until a month ago he would come home around 8 and we would have dinner together. Then, one week he had dinner with his ... (523 words)

I like a girl and I don't have any expectations of her liking me back. How do I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

18 April 2019 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi So to cut a long story short. I really like a girl, I believed she liked me for a while but now I think she doesn't. It's mixed signals which usually means they're not into you. I can't really move on until I know for sure as I always want to find hope. So i'm goin... (116 words)

He broke up with me and now I'm pregnant

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all! I’m in a tough situation.. So last week my boyfriend broke up with me because of pressure from his family. Here’s the gist of it: We started dating a year and half ago. I’m bi-racial, half black and half Hispanic. He’s Indian. When we started dating, I asked ... (631 words)

We broke up and now I regret it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - So I had been dating this boy for three weeks, and we were in a happy relationship together. He's currently in his last year of school so has to prepare for his exams, so he couldn't talk to me all the time but we agreed that he would keep me posted whenever he had time and he ... (808 words)

Is it normal for pregnant women to drift away from friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for pregnant women to drift apart from friends? My best friend is 6 months along now but she has been ignoring me since Dec. Never answers my texts/calls. Strange thing is one random day she blocks me on fb but keeps me on whatsapp and instagram. Ay work i catch ... (104 words)

Does my post break up regret suggest we should stay together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I feel at a dilemma here. I have been in a relationship with my current BF for 5 months now. I am 26, he is 26. I have asked questions about this relationship on here in the past, basically not wanting to deal with his issues. Most advice returned was to end the ... (392 words)

Supplemental: My ex is now posting horrible things about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

17 April 2019 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I did post my question earlier this week and i did get good feedback so thank you to those who did help, but I do feel as if I left out a lot of information and it is quite a confusing situation I find myself in so I’d like to give this another attempt. To give you... (1053 words)

Should I tell my former professor how I feel about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1949 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - its been about 6 six years now since I left college and I got along really well with my maths teacher and I started to develop strong passionate feelings towards him , I was aware it was not appropriate so I have never told anyone or him . just recently I saw him shopping and... (142 words)

My Algerian fiance wants $5000 for a student visa?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

17 April 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Thanks in advance for your help. My fiancée and myself live in different countries. I’m Canadian , he is from Algeria. We have been together over 2 years. I have went to see him 6 times in the two years. He has applied for his visiting visa twice and both tim... (155 words)

One night stand why didn't he call back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

16 April 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short, I had sex with a guy from my office last week and he bailed right after. I noticed he had been staring at me over the last several weeks, but we were never introduced. At a late office party at a hotel last week (where I had a room); he was there; we ... (547 words)

Why does my wife go cold on me when we’re on holiday?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

16 April 2019 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just got home from a 2-week cruise around the Caribbean with my parents, my wife and my two kids. It was the holiday of a lifetime and we all had an amazing time. The only downside was that my wife seemed to just ignore me the whole holiday. I might as well have not ... (698 words)