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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I volunteer for the first time for three months in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - ive never known what I want to do career wise and ive never really had any ambitions or hobbies as such . I often get slightly worried that in a few years I don't know what ill be doing and I don't know if ill have a job . ive been wanting to volunteer and just recently I have ... (131 words)

People have called me quirky and individual but have also called me weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I really struggle when speaking and getting to know people nearly every time I meet someone they call me weird and I know they don't mean this offensively as I ask them , yet I take it as a bad thing . a lot of people have said I am really funny , quirky and individual yet I ... (132 words)

How do I stop getting erections around her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

30 June 2018 (M)

age 18-21 - My second cousin (a female) and I spend a lot of time together. We are both 13 years old and we share a lot of hobbies. We are both cousins and friends. The problem is that I keep on getting erections around her. I will admit she is extremely cute but I know there can't... (134 words)

Everything was perfect... until he lost his nan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have been friends for about a year. We had the most amazing relationship. We both had said that we had a stronger bond than we'd ever had with anyone else. We tackled any problems together as a team (as ... (874 words)

Our relationship is disintegrating, and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically me and my partner have been together for almost 3 years now. We live together. Recently there are more and more days where I am doubting our relationship. We have never had sex, we have done other things at the beginning of our relationship but he said back then he ... (375 words)

My boyfriend is depressed and anxious, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. The first year was great but since then we've had alot of personal challenges. For the past 1.5 years my boyfriend has been struggling with anxiety and depression. He couldn't cope with work anymore and quit. He's been through 6 ... (713 words)

Something's not right with my mother and I'm very worried about her mental health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my mother has ADHD,I'm no professional so I may be wrong in diagnosing her but something is definitely not right..she's a wonderful mum but I'm starting to feel very frustrated with our relationship, I apologise in advance if this is long winded I need to vent,. I know ... (1060 words)

What should I do about this player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) age 36-40 - OK - this is a long and complicated story, so please bear with me. I worked in the same company with a guy. We worked there for over a year, remotely. That means we didn't meet in real life, until perhaps a year into the time at the company, at a corporate retreat. At the ... (1461 words)

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

30 June 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in many months, as she both was ... (276 words)

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. I feel ridiculously jea... (225 words)

Some colleagues at work are targeting me and I feel that they'll complain against me yet again and have me fired. How do I handle things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

30 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, how do you deal with a petty, catty work environment? Honestly, I feel like I just need to vent to some helpful strangers with the comfort of knowing no one will ever find this. However, any advice will be appreciated. I am a young student, who recently got... (924 words)

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2335 days ago

29 June 2018 (M) age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different directions. He told me he still wanted ... (241 words)

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2334 days ago

29 June 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his dressing gown. Keep in mind she has ... (528 words)

I fear that he has grown controlling, though he says that I am too sensitive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

29 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both 23 and met in our first year of university. I did not take uni seriously initially and ended up failing and being suspended for 2 years for it. I was struggling financially and relied on him (he has a wealthy ... (745 words)

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

29 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've been told by multiple people) ... (185 words)

To have sex or not ever have sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

29 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Mod note: combined posts Why are people hypocrites when it comes to sex? And by that I mean, I am a 26 year old virgin and my friends tell me to wait and how my virginity is such a great gift. They will tell me I am lucky to be virgin, that sex is overrated and that I... (1539 words)

What do I do when I'm not ready for this to be over and fear that's what will happen if I told him I read that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

28 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Even my boyfriend and I got together, he told me "You can read my diaries, but do not tell me about it." When I asked about it he said it's because he wants to be understood, but he doesn't want anyone to read his deepest thoughts. So, after his ex saw us together and suddenly ... (405 words)

Why do men want to show off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

28 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I am back in the dating game after two years of not looking. For the first time in my life I am looking to actually pay attention to the red flags(previously when the signs read “wrong way”) I just kept going. I would say I am an attractive women ( I don’t mean to say this... (254 words)

How can I stop being awkward and boring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

28 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop being awkward and boring? (and how can I tell whether or not I actually am boring) I am almost 28 and have never been in a relationship before. I have friends but I have known them for 5-15 years, depending. Basically, I haven't met anyone new in a while. I... (262 words)

Is it for sure that I will get a green card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

28 June 2018 (F) age 30-35 - I got a divorce 3 years ago because my husband was emotionally and physically abusive. I have a 4 year old daughter, and i always do my best to sacrifice the best for her. I live in the middle east, and i always have to go to Texas, USA for months because im an entrepreneur, ... (346 words)

My partner doesn't help with the new baby, is overpowering and dominant, and abusive when drunk. I've had enough of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am at a crossroad in my relationship/life. I had a beautiful baby month in January this year. He is my pride and joy. However I am now seeing a side of my fiancee that i hate (i know thats a strong word) I'm not sure I love him or want to continue my relationship with ... (257 words)

Am I being too harsh in blocking her completely out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently going through a breakup. I already have a hard time making friends, for some odd reason (whcih I am in a way blessed) most of the few people in my circle are now also goiung through breakups, divorces, single, etc. so it helps me to relate. but there is t... (260 words)

Should I give my husband an ultimatum for moving out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. im coming here again for advice.. i get new perspective of what happened in my life. Im married for almost a year and being pregnant right now. My relationship with husband is bad and we kinda lose connection and bonds we used to have. We barely have meal together. N... (1105 words)

I planned a trip with friends and now they are going on a day I can't go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I planned a trip to a theme park and invited a couple of friends. I was excited about this. Then one if those friend's invited another couple of friends. One of those friends can't go on the day I am going, so they are now going on another day that I can't go. I feel pissed off ... (140 words)

I'm at my wit's end about my boyfriend's constant complaints!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a loving, faithful and caring person. We have been in a relationship for 6 months and dated for 6 months before that. We have good communication, friendship, chemistry and sexual compatibility. Everything is great except for his excessive complaining. For e.g.... (407 words)

Is it normal to feel apathetic towards guys after a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Have you ever felt indifferent towards men for a long time after a bad relationship and constantly being looked over, and I say looked over because you don't even get close to being rejected. Is this even normal? My whole life I have been looked over by men or rejected at b... (406 words)

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John Phillip Sousa Award in my class ... (1178 words)

Boyfriend tells me he doesn't want kids, I leave crying and I haven't heard from him since. How is he so cold?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2081 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - My LDR boyfriend of a year and a half finally admitted to me that he had 100% decided that he doesn't want kids. I am 40, have frozen my eggs and most days I feel the incredible yearning for a family. I say "finally admitted" because he has known since last August that I fr... (509 words)

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

27 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back burner, so to speak. I have two ... (781 words)

My best friend is in love with me but I don't feel the same way and now I've lost my best and only friend because we're not even on talking terms

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

26 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my guy best friend has been friends for years. He confessed his feelings to me, he was in love with me too much. He would never leave a day without talking to me. I love him as my best friend. And i can't imagine myself not having him beside me. But it hurts me too much ... (337 words)

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

26 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages because he didn't want to get ... (80 words)

I've lost faith in relationships, love and marriage. Can anyone else relate to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2337 days ago

26 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've kind of lost faith in love. The guys I dated taught me harsh realities and often love is not enough. I used to be romantic as a teenager and then it became mutual love and respect, then it became more about finding a good intellectual match and compatibility wi... (128 words)

I basically have Chandler Bing's personality! How do I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

26 June 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, I realized that I have a flaw in my personality which is that I enjoy putting others down/make fun of them. I always did it thinking that the person wouldn't mind, would take it lightly and laugh at it. I told myself that it was just my style of humor but it isn... (129 words)

My crushes never last long. Is this a sign of commitment issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

26 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I keep having this issue where I'll crush on guys I barely know pretty hard, then all of a sudden, the feelings fade. Is this normal? Is it just because I don't know them that well? The only time my feelings for someone haven't faded was in my first relationship, and that ... (78 words)

Am I mean to delete all our photos from his phone?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

25 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I plan to break up with my boyfriend but I don't want to let him know until I delete all our photos together from his phone. Am I mean to delete all our photos from his phone? I never wanted to take pictures with him in the first place because I didn't believe we would... (102 words)

My boyfriend is being secretive of his phone and is liking Instagram pictures of girls in bikinis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

25 June 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for almost 5 months. He is from Israel and went to go visit his family for 6 weeks. It has only been less than a week since he left but for a couple of weeks before he left I have been getting a weird vibe between us. We ... (240 words)

I’m starting to worry about her relationship with a lesbian friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

24 June 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian. I'm starting to get worried. Am I overreacting? They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her lesbian friend. And, she's the one wh... (115 words)

My ex wants to say goodbye!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

24 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex of 1 year got a job opportunity in France a few months back and we decided to end it due to the distance. She wants to see me before she leaves but I don’t know if that is a good idea as I’m trying to move on and it may spark old feelings for us. I still really care ... (83 words)

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

24 June 2018 (M)

age 41-50 - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early 20s, I was a jackass. I stole... (140 words)

How do I make my girlfriend feel special and loved?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

24 June 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. Basically, my GF of almost one year has told me that she feels more like my best friend than girlfriend. I really need help in fixing things as I care about her a great deal and would be gutted to lose her ... (257 words)

How do I ask for a sex toy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

24 June 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I want a sex toy because, I'm a 17 year old girl now. I know after I ask I'm going to say, think of it this way, I'm still a virgin. Most people my age aren't anymore. But the problem is, I have to ask my dad. Not a mom. How do I do this? I'm daddy's baby girl. He can barley ... (82 words)

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

23 June 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male friends and they talk alot during... (138 words)

What if I fail ......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

23 June 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a new job I would love to ... (212 words)

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2341 days ago

23 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people but we get by. His work certainl... (207 words)

Is my sister crossing a relationship boundary line? I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2339 days ago

22 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - First i want to start by saying that setting boundaries in relationships has always been confusing for me. Some background info on my gradual Relationship with my sister.. She's always gotten mad at her boyfriends for being friendly with me. Me and her get along pretty w... (198 words)

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

22 June 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used condoms. I've gone out with her once ... (307 words)

I want to let the past go and move forward from this dead relationship, thinking about it has been holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

22 June 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a bit of slump, again. Been with this guy for awhile now. He told me upfront that he was depressed from the start but i went straight to it without knowing what i've gotten myself into. I was 17 back then. He gave me a sweet memory at the beginning, but then it turn... (510 words)

I suffer from OCD and crippling jealousy and my husband's occasional comments about other women's looks drive me over the edge

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2343 days ago

22 June 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you guys can give me some wise advice, because i can't deal with and handle my OCD and my jealousy. I do suffer from OCD and now my OCD appears to have crossed into the realm of the physical too, whereby i get obsessed by a particular thought, (in today's ... (659 words)

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

21 June 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since deleted her number from his ... (80 words)

He blocked me on Instagram then lied about why!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

21 June 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - He blocked me on Instagram and lied to me about it saying his app had a problem. Yes I believed it. I have another account on Instagram for makeup and fashion posts. He commented on another girl’s picture saying “Dayyyuuumm”. He has all his exes and women he’s slept with on ... (111 words)