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*ayechris07
writes:I want a divorce but my husband doesnt agree, what can i do i dont love him anymore but we have a child. The fact that i dont love him anymore and everytime he asks me to have sex with him and if i disagree he gets mad and always doubted that i dont love him but instead of another men which is true. although i keep on telling that thing i dont love him i think he doesnt understand but i dont want to live with him thats the reason i dont want to go back home and stay with him.What should i do,because he was hard to understand .
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (29 July 2014):
 I remember reading your previous question but without replying as all that I had to say was in one way or another already said by everyone else who replied. I agree with Anonymous on this one. Have a lawyer present when communicating with your hubby and share custody as he has been a good father to his child and it would be really selfish of you not to allow him to see his child, especially since you had left your child previously which really is ridiculous. You've got to have a lawyer present because this way the law will force him to accept what he all along couldn't. You should never leave your child behind. As a mother, your child goes where you go. That's it. If this is what you want, also be there for your child as it may impact the kid in the long run and cause future problems. Bare in mind that its not all about you although it is you doing the divorcing. The child is also involved and will need love and attention. Don't forget to play your role. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2014): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-boyfriend-but-he-doesnt-know.html
You left your daughter with him to flee to another country to live with another man and ditch your responsibilities - just so anyone who answers your post knows that, as it's not in this one.
When you go back, get a lawyer to help you divorce him. If he usually gets angry, don't talk to him in person without your lawyer present. Then, you'll need to get joint custody of your daughter. I don't say full custody because, if he's a good father, he deserves his child too - and you can't run away from your child if you get any custody.
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