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How do we deal with his crush?

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Question - (27 February 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2014)
A male India age 41-50, *eorgedz writes:

Hello Friends,

I need a help. It is for my wife that I write. Her nephew is just 18 and very curious about things. He is very close to her and week back he asked his troubles to her. She being friendly explained as much possible. He during the course touched her and hugged her that she managed to come out out of the situation. This boy is a harmless guy indeed.

But she was very surprised to see this. He is now sexually attracted to her. What could be the best to do.

cheers

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A male reader, georgedz India +, writes (1 March 2014):

georgedz is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks dear all.. I got wonderful right advice I think. Now I understand that things are really light if taken care appropriately.

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A male reader, Gauntlet France +, writes (28 February 2014):

Gauntlet agony auntI would be curious to hear what's your wife's own position about that issue ? Is she shocked ? Is she afraid ? Or does it she amuse her ? Does she feel flattered ? Her visible reaction might be interpreted as a go-ahead and the more the boy will feel he has his chances, the more he will push his flirt further.

Anyway, if I were you, I for sure would find disturbing knowing my wife's nephew had sexual desires for her, as at that age, he will surely look for any opportunity to reach his goal.

As it's a family problem, it has to be handled with diplomacy. Consequently I think that in a first step, your wife should be the only one to deal with that boy, as to make him understand that nothing can ever happen between them two, because she is a MARRIED woman (besides being his aunt).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2014):

this business is not for you to get in to, but you should advise your wife if she doesn't already know to let the guy down. gently. how did you know that he's attracted to her. if you're not sure, don't jump to conclusions.

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