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writes:I'm getting married next year. I have been sleeping on my bed alone for the past 23 years of my life. I only slept on the same bed as my fiance once and he said that I kicked him off the bed. I feel that I always kick in my sleep because each time I wake up in the morning all my pillows are on the floor. Is there any way to cure this? I don't want the love of my life to be kicked everyday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2014): Have you been checked for restless leg syndrom, do you have sleep apnia? or anemia? are you acting out dreams?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 August 2014):
 Definitely invest in a king size bed and do warning him again next time. Sooner or later he will learn to fend for himself. My husband talks in his sleep all the time, really mundane stuff too. Occasionally, even after all these years I sucker into having a "conversation" with him only to find out he wants to trade the monkey in on a new one or some such goofy crap. Your husband will learn to fend for himself trust me.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 August 2014):
 Let him know.
I toss and turn ALL night, I know I "slapped" my husband in my sleep last night - NOT on purpose I was apparently trying to roll over and his face was were I wanted my hand...
I have found though that when I sleep with a body pillow and my OWN blanket (he is a notorious blanket hog) I rarely involuntarily hit/kick my husband - and... having a King size bed helps too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2014): You might want to get checked to see if you have Restless Leg Syndrome first and see what can be done about it.
I get severe leg cramps at night and there is no way I can sleep in the same bed with someone else and not have room to maneuver my legs around so they don't cramp up.
It is what is for me. I need the whole bed in order to get a good night's sleep.
I told my fiancé straight up about it and I said if he can't handle it he was free to leave the relationship. I didn't think it would be fair to him at all given my physical condition.
I would see a doctor first about your kicking and go from there.
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