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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,We've discussed vibrators and wanted to know if vibrators have to be inserted? my wife always has clitoral orgasms and is not comfortable with anything being inserted into her. Having a brief look, it looks like they need to be penetrative which my wife would not be comfortable with.Ansers are appreciated.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2013): My favourite vibrator:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19820
It is purely for the clitoris, it couldn't go inside if you tried.
I am sure there are cheaper options but this one is very good.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 September 2013):
 Vibrators are not penetrative. That's dildo's. Sure you CAN insert the vibrator, but they are for most part designed for external stimulation. You use it in whichever way you like, to be honest. Just because something might look like it should be inserted doesn't mean you have to if it gives the desired effect when used externally.
Just enter a shop and buy the most basic thing you can find that has a comfortable handle. Don't buy something too expensive, but something simple with different speeds that can be adjusted. Then you can try it and see if you like it and next time you will know better what you're looking for.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 September 2013):
 You can look up things like Venus Butterfly vibrator (no insertion) it's for the clitoris only, basically.
Google those or finger vibrators/ nubs and you will find MANY that are useful during sex or by itself.
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/finger-vibrators-c-1484.aspx
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/butterfly-vibrators/sp-adam-eve-purple-venus-butterfly-35913.aspx
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs-c-1051.aspx
NONE of those are for insertion - just a good buzz. (so to speak).
Have fun.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (29 September 2013):
 Quite a few are designed exclusively for the clitoris.
You can buy them discreetly online but if there is a sex shop in your area I would heartily recommend checking them out in person to have a better idea of their size, texture, etc. The store clerks in these places really have heard it all (what you're looking for is about as 'vanilla' as it gets) and will be able to answer any questions you may have about specific styles or models in a professional way. They can also make recommendations based on what other women customers have bought and liked. And toy shopping with your partner can be spicy and a turn-on in and of itself ;)
Happy hunting!
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (29 September 2013):
Dear OP,
I've got a penis-shaped vibrator at home, but I never insert it. I just hold it to the sensitive spots and enjoy. I don't know why a lot of vibrators are penis-shaped.. but anyway, I don't use them like a penis. Vibrators are often made of hard plastic and they don't feel good if inserted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2013): There you go : http://www.annsummers.com/c/sex-toys/for-your-clityou're welcome
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reader, Aunty Babbit +, writes (29 September 2013):
 You can use a vibrator any way you want too.
Most are designed for penetrative use but work in exactly the same way as the ones designed for clitoral stimulation.
All you need to do is find the design your wife likes. Base it on which texture she prefers, and it's range of different vibrations.
How you use it is up to you.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2013): No a vibrator is best used externally on the clitoris itself. That is how the majority of women achieve orgasm.
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