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writes:I work as a life guard in a indoor pool and I'm very attracted to one guy who started swimming there. He is tall dark and handsome and very sociable. There is one issue though, whenever I talk to him I find myself glancing down at his body and checking him out. Oh and yes he does wear those little speedos. He must see me doing this but it doesn't seem to bother him. I would like to ask him out, but three other lifeguards think he is hot to. Will this cause problems with them if I ask him out, as they are also interested in him also. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2013): There is nothing wrong with a guy wearing speedos. My boyfriend is a swimmer and wears them all the time. He looks amazing in them, and yeah I've seen other girls checking him out.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (30 September 2013):
 he wears speedos?
hey, if you like banana hammocks, that's all you.
no body has dibs on the guy. if you like him, ask him out.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (30 September 2013):
 Are they friends of yours?
Is there a policy against employees dating pool patrons?
If you answered no to both questions, I'd say go for it. But try not to do it while you're on the clock.
Good luck!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 September 2013):
 What's to worry about????? We guys have been gawking at you girls' breast since the beginning of time... all the while claiming that we were carrying on a conversation with you!!! Ha!!!!! Turn-about IS fair play!!!
Good luck....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 September 2013):
 A guy who wears Speedos isn't going to be too bothered by people checking him out. He wears Speedos because he likes wearing them, either they are comfy or help him swim faster or get him that extra bit of attention.
We can't say if the other lifeguards would be bothered if you ask him out, as we don't know them. Is it common for lifeguards to ask out the pool's patrons? Is it something that is okay with management and staff? Have you asked your fellow lifeguards about how they would react if you asked him out?
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