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writes:I have been in Married 15 years. I love him very much. However, I found two times he took Viagra with him when he is a way for a long trip. First time I found he took about 2 pill, this time was half of the bill. Both times, I talked to him. I asked him why does he need it when he is away. I told him to that I believe he either having affair or used for calling girls. He said he used to masturbate. I don't believe him,because in my opinion, to masturbate only for whom is so strong in sexual and he will masturbate without Viagra.I think my husband has been cheating on me, and he feel embarrass to admit with me, because he is not strong in sexual, in the last 8 years he uses Viagra when he have a sex with me. even that, he has a heard time to get it out. I want him to be honest with me. Please tell me what should I do? Do you believe he masturbateThank you,
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer.I will try to believe him as you said. But still, it will take a long time for me to feel comfortable around him.
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (30 September 2013):
 Viagra is a little pill that merely increases blood flow to the penis to help guys who have trouble achieving or maintaining an erection to have a sustained erection.
What a guy chooses to do with that erection is, I suppose, his choice.
A whole pill is designed to maintain the erection for the duration of full blown intercourse so if he's only taking half a pill then the chances are he is using it just to enjoy masturbating without the long term, full on, erection usually preferred for sexual intercourse.
There are a lot of guys who, despite having a full and healthy sex life with their partner, still enjoy watching or reading porn and masturbating.
The fact that your hubby is taking a Viagra pill away with him does not automatically mean he's having an affair.
You've asked him and he gave his answer, which is plausible.
The issue here is that you don't believe him. Why don't you trust him? Does it run deeper than just the little blue pill?
Lack of trust can seriously damage a relationship, is there anything else in his actions or behaviour that are leading you to this conclusion?
If not then you must believe him.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2013): I just font know why he does not want to share and open with me. i think he is cheatiing on me
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