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writes:Well, long story short; I had a brief relationship with a man who lived quite a way from me, we'd see eachother now and then but were crazy about eachother, it was very cute, romatic etc. We called it a day when things were getting a little difficult but remained friends. After a while we just stopped talking full stop, we talked again and he was very cute, romantic and his usual self a year later. I've recently started talking to him again, hes in a new relationship but i only want to know him as a friend, yet hes blunt with me, replies short in messages and takes sometimes 1-3 days to reply and really doesnt seem interested in being friends with me at all, what have i done wrong? Should i even have bothered to get back in touch? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 September 2013):
 Let him go, you do not really want to be his friend, you just want to keep him in your life.
If he desperate wanted you in his he wouldn't wait days to reply, he just doesn't have the nuts to cut you off.
His focus is his new GF.
Wish him luck and stop trying to be friends, cut the contact.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 September 2013):
I would let him go. He has a girlfriend now, and what you had before can't be the same. I imagine his new girlfriend will be the one who gets all his romantic attention. Let him go.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 September 2013):
 He is in a relationship , and he will have realized, or, his gf will have made him realize, that he has no business being cute and romantic and charming to other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2013): Honey his involved with someone now.
So his priority changed. You might just want to stay friends with him but you can't expect that he would be as warm as he was before.
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