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writes:What does it mean if a girl said right after sex: "after this I definitely need a cigarette". We met last week and had sex for the 1st time last night. Does it mean she enjoyed it?The issue is that she hasn't called or responded to my text.Thanks
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 September 2013):
 The "After this, now I really need a cigarette" was her way of paying you a HUGE compliment for your lovemaking skills in satisfying her.
It's an old cliche that after really really good toe-curling sex, you smoke a cigarette. It's a sign of complete post-orgasmic satisfaction.
I don't know if she smoked that cigarette or not, but she was complimenting you. She was telling you that you're THE man.
As far as the text thing is concerned, that one I can't answer. Maybe call her up in a couple of days and invite her out again. If you had sex within a week of meeting her, she may have thought it was amazing, but she may be regretting how fast it happened. She may be leery of rushing things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2013): I smoke a cigarette after good or bad sex, makes no difference.
As for the text it depends on what you wrote in it. I sincerely hope you didn't ask her about it. Doesn't really look good if you have to ask a girl if she enjoyed sex after the first time. It's kind of case of you being there you should know.
Besides it's not important whether she enjoyed it or not only whether you get the chance to go again. Very few intelligent women will judge a guy on their first time sleeping together. It can take time to adjust to a new person.
You're just going to have to play the waiting game, OP.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 September 2013):
 Was the "cigarette" tobacco? ..... or, did it smell like burning rope?????
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 September 2013):
 Good sex - light up a cigarette.
Yea, she enjoyed it.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 September 2013):
Some people smoke after sex for some reason. It has absolutely no connection to her not responding to your text as fast as you'd like. I don't see where you made the connection.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 September 2013):
 Have you been living under a rock for the past 26-29 years? A cigarette after satisfactory sex! It's a thing. I'm reminded of that joke:
The chicken and the egg are sitting up in bed, the chicken smoking a cigarette. The chicken turns to the egg and says, "Well, I guess we know the answer to that question."
... or it goes something like that. You get it. If you don't... well, it'll come to you.
It's only been since last night that she hasn't responded. Give her some time. It sounds like she had a good roll in the hay. I mean, maybe she was just trying to stroke your ego - we weren't there - but what she says definitely indicates a good time.
Don't worry too much. Relax and be patient. Good luck!
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