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We have some obstacles in our sex life, what's the best way to deal with them?

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Question - (6 November 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a 45 year old male who has a disabled female partner. At the moment, our matress is very soft. We feel that I am far to heavy wwhen it comes to sex. Also, we are cuddling and kissing, but not having much genital sex. What is the best way to get around this?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOH FAT SEX... just google it...

sexual positions for fat people

or for the more politically correct: sexual positions for overweight people

http://www.rotunda.com/people/yohannon/fat_position.html

I used to be 300 pounds married to a 500 pound man... WE MANAGED.... you can too...

you say she is disabled... I would need more info to advise for her...

but in this case your google searches can be

disabled sexual positions (or use her specific disability... for example "sexual positions for a bad back")

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 November 2013):

olderthandirt agony auntTry google and type in kama sutra. a book written 400BC and has over 100 sex positions.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (6 November 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntCripes!!! .... this is simple. You and she go to all sorts of places to copulate.... and decide which is the best/preferred place for the two of you... THEN, get a bed which most-closely mimics that (place)!!!!!

Good luck. I hope it's NOT in the back seat of your 1954 Chevy!!!!! (It's hard to find a good one of those!!!!!)...

Good luck...

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