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30-35,
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writes:Why does this girl behave this way?So I have this friend she's been calling me her best friend for years and a few months ago she has been hanging out with this girl and she sees her more than me. She never let me see her niece but she's let this girl see her.She never let me hang out with her mum but she invited this girl over to dinner with her mum, her mums friends and her auntie.She posted all this on Instagram and a pic with her and this girl saying she's her bestie.She messaged me yesterday and I've been very busy with work and college I don't feel like talking to anyone.She went off on me and said she knows I've been online and I'm just ignoring her, she called me immature, told me to have a good life, goodbye and she blocked and deleted me.What is her problem? I'm so hurt.This is the girl I've been loyal to for years!! When we all finished secondary school I'm the only that's stuck by her.She's very obese, she doesn't go out anywhere, she hasn't stepped out her house in 2years and I'm the only one that's been going to her house to keep her company.She acts like a pysciopath always angry and throwing tantrums. We are both 23
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 November 2013):
 well it sounds like you both have outgrown each other. It happens... especially around your age.
you say you are hurt... what hurts... if she's not left her house for two years.. it sounds very much like a one way relationship...
are you hurt that she no longer needs/depends on you that you've been "replaced"
what did you get from the relationship?
I'm wondering if this pain at being abandoned by someone who has not left her home in two years is indicative of you possibly having some co-dependent tendencies....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 November 2013):
 Well, seems like you didn't lose a friend but lost a drama-llama.
I don't really see what the problem is? She doesn't sound like a BFF - more like someone who used you for company and you used back.
How about you try and make some new friends. People you might share interests with, go out and do stuff with - you know what friends do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013): Sounds like she's moved on from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013): I know this is probably unlikely, but do you think they could be going out together? Either way I think you should just talk to her in person, and let her know how you feel. She does sound like she's overacting a lot though.
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