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22-25,
*iara_xoxo
writes: There's a guy at my drama group and he was flirting with me last Thursday, and I caught him looking at me the week before. He kept touching me (not in the weird way) and I felt really quite special and important. This is because I've never been in a relationship before and never had anyone like me either. I really like him too, but while he was talking to me and my friend, they were talking about this mutual friend (I don't know her) then he looked at me and said she was ' nice ' even though I wasn't really in the conversation. Do you think he was doing this on purpose to make me better? He was also asking questions about myself like what year I was in,(this is when he teased me about being small by saying I was in yr 7 when we're both in yr 9) what school I went to etc. Then he started saying to me 'so....um...I was wondering if.....' then trailed off!!! I'm now desperate to know what he was gonna say! Anyway, I was wondering if you could give me amy advice like how to flirt with him, and if he likes me a bit? Thank you and hope to hear soon!
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (3 November 2013):
You are wondering if . . . he meant if you are interested? Flirting isn't really about what to do, it's about enjoying each moment when you have alone time together. When you enjoy each other's company you would unknowingly send out signals. Next time you have a drama session with him you can ask more questions about his life. Your genuine interest in him speaks louder than gestures like hair flicking and body posturing. The only way to know is through talking. People can flirt day in and day out but it could go nowhere if they are too shy to say something. At least let the conversation build and see if there's enough liking mutually.
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