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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Met this woman (online site) a month ago, we met and had coffee, seemed to get along and talk and have things in common, she is just looking to meet new friends, as am I. we are still both on the site, but dont talk on it..A few days after meeting she sent me a text to wish me a good wkend, nothing initiated by her since.. but i have sent hi 2 texts... we had some things in common,laughed a few times, only one awkward silence, and she kind of spoke of catching up, but did acknowledge she is busy and was meeting others too.(as yu do onlne..) ie she said " im going to .... on the wkend ill tell you what its like"she seems very busy, and she has a few friends, much more than me , I have sent a couple of casual "hello how are you whats up, hope yu have a good week, done this at work.." type of texts since but neither of us have called and I was the one initiating the texts.. apart from the one she sent after we met..its been 10 days since ive sent any texts. and she has sent none, not even a hello online.Id like to send another hi text and maybe "would yu like to catch up?" but apart from that one time, she havent inited any texts to me, I dont want to call, this may be a bit forward as I dont know her and shes busy.Id like to get to know her as friends, but.. dont want to appear too eager, desperate, or worse.. a weirdo.. im not!! but am not sure where i stand, we met once, for coffee, shes quite busy, work etc and hasnt initiated texts to me. so... do I send one more hi text? or is this too keen? She must not want to see me again, or are they really busy meeting new women and making other friends?, we all get busy i know.Again it was for f.ship, no date. i just want to meet new friends as I need to, and I dont often meet women I get along with, as they usually ignore me, and women are cliuqey..nd im friendly but quieter.but maybe she was just being friendly.. and not into meeting me as a friend, but we seemed to click, a little..unsure...advice? genuine answers pleaseno hate thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013):
The person that posted isn't male, she is female ..
Okey so let see if I've got the picture, you met a girl just for friendship, seemed to get on well.. But since texting there hasn't been a huge response on her side ?
If I were in your shoes, I would text something like ' hi stranger, wondering if your were up for a girls night on the town? See if we can dance some guys feet off ?' And see how she replys ..
If she doesn't you have your answer .. Some friendships just never get of the starting line .. But if you don't put yourself out there even for friendship
Then you will never know ..
Take care and let us know how you get on . X
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): To send a text with just hi is not enough. I received these hi's several times a day, I don't even try to answer. My thought on it: if you have something to say, just say it, but don't expect me to initiate our relationship. I had bad experiences Ina past, when a guy just sat around waiting for me to call, text and invite him on dates.
You are not showing any interest so far. I bet she is thinking that you are just another lazy ass man who won't move a finger to have a woman.
And also don't think all the time how busy she is. If she likes you she will find time to see you, this is just how it works.
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