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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really don't like masturbating that much, but because I've got such a high sex drive i have to do it for relief. I can masturbate up to 3/4 times a day, and i get horny very quickly - for example i was sitting at the back of the bus behind a girl earlier today, and she was doing some writing and every time she reached for something in her bag she looked at me. I was getting hard just thinking about what i could do to her, but i didn't have the balls (no pun intended) to say anything to her. I mean it's not like some girl is going to jump bones with a random guy, or would she have? haha.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 November 2013):
You should have talked with the girl, and any other female that catches your eye (if at all possible). Don't be so shy, but don't think in terms of what you do 'to' them - rather be 'with' them. Be pleasant and personable. Some will turn you away, but so what? Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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reader, llifton +, writes (17 November 2013):
No. She wouldn't have.
Masturbation is the key here. lots of it.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (17 November 2013):
IF the masturbation isn’t a problem for you (interfering with the rest of your life), carry on with that. Much safer and more respectful than one night stands. Also if you can satisfy your sex drive you’re more likely to focus on other things in a girl than how turned on you are by her, which will help you find the right person if you are dating. Men have a high sex drive, unfortunately. I’m sure plenty of the single guys you know also have to take care of themselves on a regular basis, it’s just not talked about.
I wish you all the very best.
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