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writes:So the kinkiest, hottest and most bullshit free sex I have ever had, is not in a a serious relationship. I am having it right now, but as I get past 10 years of monogamy (including 2 of marriage) in which sexstarted with co-ersion (as a teen) included infedelity, from year one and also included pornography and physical pain and tension, guilt for being too tight (not knowing until now that being tight can be a good thing)Anyway- did I know it was possible, outside of my imagination for a man to be kind to you, to encourage you to speak if sex was sore (and even whe you didn't to read it on your face) To telk you it is not all a out his pleasure, andd every time before he gets lost to ask you if he is going too deep?I did not know that.I do know this man does not love me and this is casual sex. I also know that the bad lover and jerk did love me, in his own selfish way...What I want to know is this... is it truly possible to have some-one so handsome, so intelligent and such a good lover actually love me one day? Can I have love and good sex one day too? In the same place? Wodeep?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 November 2013):
 Yes it's possible but you will need to get rid of the FWB to find one....
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 November 2013):
 Let's analyze this piece of your submittal: "is it truly possible to have some-one so handsome, so intelligent and such a good lover actually love me one day? Can I have love and good sex one day too? "
See.... the first sentence has absolutely NOTHING to do with the second..... Apparently, you've bought in to the media hype that "tells you" that you need an Adonis boyfriend... and that this handsome creature will, automatically, be a good friend/lover/partner.... Put that aside, and look at the second sentence...
Yes... you CAN have love and good sex..... In fact, some of us (I'm one of them).... believe that the ONLY "good sex" involves someone who you love.... AND, conversely, the best love (loving) INCLUDES good sex.....
Separate those two subjects.... review your love-life... and see if you haven't co-mingled them to the DETRIMENT of your best interest...
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2013): It is possible! I am in a relationship and the sex my partner and myself have is unbelievable, amazing and there is never a dull moment
Our bodys just connect and we know exactly what each other want we can read one another very well !
I hope this relationship never ends but if it does i can 95% say that i will never experience a sexual relationship again the way i have with this person!
It is just pure heat, tension, emoition and raw passion and love for one another and care for pleasure in one another x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 November 2013):
 Its possible. Absolutely. But like the saying goes, you need to kiss many frogs to find a prince. Find someone who loves you first, then focus on the sex. If he doesnt love you, let him go and dont have sex. If he loves you, you can move on to sex. If the sex is bad, let him go and try with someone new.
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