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I'm being harassed by my ex boyfriend's new girl. I just want to be left alone. What do I do?

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Question - (28 July 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so me and this guy dated he broke up with me things ended pretty badly amd more so in a physical altercation he chocked me etc. but anyway he came to my job one week later with another girl after we broke up and then he started talking to this girl who works in a other department at my job I rember he called her several mean names including ugly but anyway she won't stop harassing me and I don't want to snap and kick her ass because then ill get fired I'm very mature for my age I'm not bothering her I'm not calling my ex or anything but I jus hate the drama I don't wanna fight over a guy Im over him he put me through enough should I tell my boss were pretty close I've known my boss since I was like 7 or should I find another job I love my job I've been there for four years but Idk I'm trying my best to ignor the little girl but I just don't know what to do...I don't wanna be called a snitch but then I don't wanna go some where else because of her... So I don't know what to do I just want to be left alone to work and do my job it's work and I'm an adult!!!!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 July 2013):

Honeypie agony auntTake the high road and ignore her, IF you get to a point where you can't IGNORE her no more talk to your boss.

And what exactly is she doing to harass you?

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A female reader, banditsmom1124 United States +, writes (28 July 2013):

banditsmom1124 agony aunttalk to a manager about how shes harassing you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2013):

All I can say is that you're a good one cause me and her would of had it out a looong time ago. That just goes to show that she obviously isn't acting her age and has issues.

Do not let some girl run you out of a job especially one you enjoy. who cares if someone calls you a snitch... Problem will be solved and if she continues, its her job on the line not yours. Handle your business and do what you got to do. if she argues with you about a guy like a child, then treat her like a child. tell your boss.

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