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writes: I have been trying to get healthier and since I am not dating and am retired I devote more time to myself. I don't go to the gym or anything but I have been a little upset because I have gained a little weight. Anyway, I went to a health food store to by some fat burners and some other stuff. There is a guy there that I developed a crush on. He knows so much about health and I find that so interesting. I often avoid asking him questions because he has such nice eyes and he is so soft spoken and he smiles a lot. I don't know if he is married and I have never asked a man out because I freeze. I don't know what to do because I go there every week and I just smile back and say hello when I see him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAs for an update on my question, I went back to see if this
guy I have a crush on is married. I didn't see a ring on his finger. I wanted to talk to him, but he was talking to one of his employees. I noticed he looked at me and smiled again. So maybe next time I will talk with him more.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (28 July 2013):
 Take the pressure off yourself by not asking him out, or thinking about asking him out just yet. Just get to know him as a person. Ask how his day is going. If that goes well ask him personal things about himself like how he got into the health business, does he own the shop... stuff like that. Compliment him on his knowledge. Make eye contact and smile back.
Take your time, and when you're more comfortable and on a more friendly basis then you can think about asking him for a coffee or something.
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (28 July 2013):
 You might try being straight up with him. Tell him that you're shy and feel kind of nervous talking to him, but you're wondering if he's single and if so, would he like to go grab some lunch with you?
Remember, you can't get what you want unless you ask for it! Good luck, and be brave!
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