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writes:I have been looking at the flirting/giving signals of interest from girls to complete strangers. This is what I seemed to notice: they could probably happen anywhere, but these are where I was.At the big supermarkets, if a guy she is not interested in, stands around next to her looking at the shelves, she moves on to other areas and comes back later, to finish what she needs to buy there(once he has left that area, of course). On the other hand, when it's a guy she is attracted to, she will stand around there(pretending to look at products), until he leaves, shows interest or she gives up. She will also stop and browse where a cute guy is browsing.As I said, similar scenarios happen in other places. I am sure I have seen girls stopping at a bus stop to try getting the attention of a guy waiting for the bus(after the guy left, they did not catch a bus). Also missing their bus, when they were waiting for one, because the guy had not yet acknowledged their signals. They of course get quite cheesed off when they are ignored. Just wondering if you think my observations are correct and girls(seems to be young ones) do you do this? And guys, have you noticed this?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 July 2013):
 I think some girls are oblivious others like to play games at least til they get "caught" or "found" out.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 July 2013):
 I've never noticed this myself, but it sounds probable. Girls tend to believe a guy should do all the work, while she just stands around and looks pretty. As if THAT would be enough to get a guys attention. Of course, absolutely no guy on earth understands these extremely subtle hints. But girls think they should just stand next to a guy to make him interested, then they go on to complain about how nothing they do work, they've tried to get a guys attention by wearing nice clothes, or nice perfume, or nice make-up, or whatever. And then stand next to him or follow him around...
Yes, that sounds exactly like something young girls will do before they figure out that it doesn't work. Ever. Guys need more obvious signs. The only guys that would work on, I guess, are the guys who would try to pick you up anyway, even if you were running away from them.
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