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writes:So recently I have had a threesome, it's the second time with the same guy. Well this time my bf was in the shower when he came round so as had be arranged we started to make out, but while we were making out he started shaking almost like he was nervous? He is 23 and I am 20 he has been in long term relationships and shorter one and is very confidant (not one of the ones who's acts all confidant he really is) So what's with the shaking? I've never experienced it before with someone who knows what they were doing last time I made out with someone who was shakin it was my first kiss lol So any ideas or thoughts on this would be most helpful.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so here are a few more details, the guy is a mutual friend, both he and my bf are Hetrosexual. The guy has done threesomes before with other guys and is cool with it, including his own best mate.
The first time we got together was semi planned and we just went straight into bj then sex however this time we started by making out first then progressing from there it was while we were making out that he was shaking.
He is actually the one who first mentioned getting together for a threesome and was pushing for us to have one, after the first time we did it he asked if it could happen again and we said yes, so through out this he has been in control of what happens so I can't imagine he is forcing himself to join us.
I did like to ask as now it's been a while after then event and seems a bit off to mention it now so out of the blue(for him) I'm not afraid of what he has to say at the end of the day he keeps coming back, I'm just intrigued if this happens often with other people and why does it happen?
Thanks for the responses :)
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (10 December 2013):
 I have had that happen -- being so turned on that you start shaking. So it could be a good thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2013): what do you mean by threesome? being with 2 guys at the same time? No wonder he was shaking. He could have been: nervous? jealous? excited? unhappy for sharing you with someone else? ..only you could guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2013): He might be getting uncomfortable with the situation and just doing it for your benefit. He may be getting upset, and trying to hide his true feelings. He wants to say something or stop things, and may be holding back. It has been my experience that some people tremble when in a high state of sexual arousal.He might also be getting angry. Sometimes it's cool the first time; but if happens again, the novelty may have worn off and different emotions are surfacing about it.You don't describe the nature of this threesome. Two males and a female in a bisexual situation? Or two hetero males on one female? He may be uncomfortable with another male getting too physically close.If he was intoxicated the first time, his inhibitions were down. So he may have been more into it. Why haven't you asked him? Afraid of the answer?
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