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30-35,
*ctiveplay
writes:I am finally moving on from my ex, and another girl has caught my attention. The problem is that she has a baby with my cousin. They haven't been together for 2 years, and it was the first time they had sex when she got pregnant, they literally got to know each other when she was pregnant. He has his own girlfriend, and she is alone. He is a needle junkie, and he also used to abuse her in front of their kid. He and I really don't know each other. Never been close.I created a new Facebook after not having one for about 2 months, and she added me, and then messaged me asking why we weren't friends. I explained. We casually talked from there for about a week, and today I gave her my number and we have been texting. She shows lots of interest in me. She has told me about her goals in life, and her wanting to find a man to settle down with and stuff. She was cleaning her aunt's shop, and I commented that I was going to buy her one of those maid outfits (the lingerie kind), and she said "Go ahead, idc I'll wear it :)". I am nervous, yet I know he doesn't really care for her anymore other than they have a kid together. I really like her. She is sweet, has goals, and she is absolutely gorgeous. We are planning to hang out and go to the mountains on Saturday. Everyone in my family and friends has encouraged me to go for it, but to also proceed with caution. They feel like we would be good together.Am I in the wrong? I mean, my heart desires her, and I have a great feeling about her. Sometimes you just know, and this is one of those times where it just hit me, and I knew. I am a bit nervous, because I am not a bad guy, and would never do anyone wrong. What do I do? How do I do it?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 December 2013):
 Have you talked to her face to face? Call her and ask her out for coffee.
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reader, activeplay +, writes (10 December 2013):
activeplay is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the replies!
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