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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello dear cupid. I need help figuring out what my ex boyfriend is doing. We met and after a month he said he wasn't ready to be in relationship. And I accepted it and told him not to contact me. He didn't stop he kept contacting me. I didn't spoke to him for a month but he called me 4 days after my dad passed away. He said hi and asked how I am doing and I said fine. I asked him why he would contact me and he said I ask so many questions. He said his mom was asking about me how cute am. I told him I don't want to call him and he said I can call him in two weeks, a month or three month. I called him a few days after that even texted him he didn't responded. He ignored me. If he is gonna ignore me why would he contact me? Please I need help. What did he want? Is he playing games with me? Please I need advice on what i should do.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 December 2013):
 Ignore him, block him number if you can. If you can't then just don't answer. Sooner or later he will figure out that you don't want to talk to him.
He doesn't want to date you but expects you to be available to "talk" when HE wants to. BULLSHIT to that. Don't waste you time on him. You didn't date that long so it should be too hard to forget and move on.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 December 2013):
 It's a waste of precious and time an energy to figure out why your ex is doing whatever the heck he's doing. You dated for one month and I would take it as a blessing that he is out of your life now. Don't invite negativity back in.
Let it go, let him go, be thankful you are free of the guy who rejected you. Breathe a deep sigh of relief. Smile and..
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move on! You'll be fine.
What should you do? Ignore him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 December 2013):
 Don't be dumb enough to take part in his game. You (and he) have "broken up." Now, STAY broken up... and that means, don't waste your time/energy/attention contacting him.... It's up to YOU to make this happen.....
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2013): He feels guilty. He doesn't want to look like a jerk after ending it after only a month. He's second-guessing himself; wondering if he made the right decision.
He also has to go through mental withdrawal after breaking up. You asked him to stop contacting you; but you could have ignored him. But you didn't, did you?
Go full no-contact and let him go away. Work him out of your system as quickly as possible. Get on with your life, and let him get on with his. Let him deal with his conflict on his own. It'll be healthier for the both of you.
Sorry things, didn't work out.
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