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male
age
30-35,
*ustToonz
writes:I know Guys say let them come to you but that's not how it is with me, I am a guy who is down on his luck with the girls, I am such a player, I keep finding myself flirting with girls because deep down I'm really trying to find that right one, this has been going on for a year now, it all started when me and my ex broke up and before I even got in a relationship with her I was a faithful person, and later after me and that girl broke up, I began chasing after her following my heart and I loved her so much I spent the full last year trying to get her to be mine again I would pour my heart out for her but I failed. she didn't like me anymore.So here I am in 2013 alone!, once I meet a girl I end up throwing myself at her and telling her I like her right away and then I mess up and I stop talking to them and I move on and I end up finding another cute girl and become friends with her and I tell her flirty things, basically the same words I told the last girl, but they don't know that, I guess I'm a player, I've been single for 2 years, I cannot get a girl, no girl messages me back via Facebook, nothing.Its not my looks, I look alright, I just don't have my way with females like I use to, I have low confidence and every girl I try, I know she's not interested in me so I barely try anymore, do all men go through this?? I see this cute girl in my gymnasium class every day and I tried to get with her before which was many months ago and I did not know what I did wrong i was not fooling around with any girl at the time and she later told me to leave her alone and she got a boyfriend right afterwards.What can I do to get a girl to really like me, and want to be my girlfriend??
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reader, Lieutenant  +, writes (8 December 2013):
Despearation is not a good look and is usually unattractive. It usually almost always seems like dependency. When you start pouring your heart out to women that do not know you from a can of paint, they would obviously run away because they can see the desperation. Just take it slow and try to get to know a woman before you tell her that you love her and want her to be your gf. If it's someone that you see on a daily basis, like at school or work, then just simply ask them to out for some tea or a drink. Don't tell them you love them or want them to be your gf, just ask them out to get a feel of if you actually like them. Just because someone is pretty doesn't mean you will actually like them or that they are good company.
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reader, sallyanne +, writes (7 December 2013):
Hi am sorry to say but stop trying to hard your still young if u do try to hard then u will push her away y don't u take a break from girls to figure your self out and once u do that u will have the confidence to get back out there. So u will be ready for when the right girl does come along and she is just as much interested as u r with her. Hope this helps x
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