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writes:Hi. I have recently met a lovely girl and I seem to fancy her. She's studying same course as I'm but she joined this year. I have her number and hung out with her, made her laugh and everything seems to go nicely . We seem to get along pretty good. As I only can find time during breaks so I try to find her and hang around without making it too obvious or clingy. She's usually with her friends who tag along wherever we go!Also my friends eye us in weird ways as I never actually care about girls or tag along. This is first time I actually want to know that girl better . I just want to show I'm interested in relationship and not friendship. How can I do that? The only problem is that she is a foreign student and wouldn't go on a date with anyone. So asking her means she will just tell me she cannot. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Helloduckiexox  +, writes (9 December 2013):
 My way of putting it, Lets say she is your girlfriend already and just be comfortable with her. Treat her just like your girlfriend. In time she will be your girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question
She didn't tell me anything like she can't date but she gives the vibe about it. She told me and her girl friends that she is not allowed to go out after evening when she was invited to a party three days ago. We pretty much stay at university till evening. So university is the time we can hang around really.
I know she likes my company and I know I must show more interest as I want relationship than just friends. I know one way be break her free from group and talk to her alone n compliment her. And in next week tell her that I like her, but is there a better way?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 December 2013):
 What country is she from that she "can't" date?
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reader, Helloduckiexox +, writes (6 December 2013):
my friend take a chance and ask her to hang out.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (6 December 2013):
Why wouldn't she go on a date? And if she truly wouldn't, which seems wierd, then you obviously have no hope. If she has told you something like that it's because she's not interested, not because she's foreign.
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