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writes:i am a male student. i am already 20 years old. i have not been into relationship and i've just met a girl, a classmate of mine..i want to court her and i don't know how to start.It's like it is hard for me because it's my first time to enter a relationship but i think i'm really in love with her..i'm also talking to her but i want to get more closer to her and i want her to be my girlfriend..can you help me with this? thnx... Reply to this Question
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reader, Peterson928  +, writes (7 December 2013):
First, do not tell her that you love her until at least 7-10 dates. Otherwise, it will freak her out.
To start courting her, start with asking her to coffee. Get her number and text her. Don't be to forward and try to play it cool. And, if coffee goes well, then ask her if she wants to have dinner sometime. Another thing: Don't be a jerk, but don't friend zone yourself. Flirt a little.
Good Luck
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reader, like I see it +, writes (6 December 2013):
 For you to actively court her she must also be interested in *you* or doing so is a complete waste of your time (and she may find the attention creepy if it's unwanted on her end.)
Ask her out to something casual, like coffee or a movie, and see how she reacts. If she accepts, congratulations - she's probably interested in you also, and if the date goes well you can easily ask her for another.
If she declines, respect her wishes, be polite about the rejection and realize that you're going to meet a LOT of great girls in school, and maybe this one just wasn't meant to be.
Good luck and best wishes :)
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