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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I had a habit of saying its not working anymore and lets break up which used to have a dramatic affect on my year old bf and he used to do everything possible to pacify me and drop the argument. However today he was done with me and said I am not taking this threat anymore and said fine if this is what you wish.This is like second time he agreed to breaking up in a week.Ofcourse I have no choice but to stand on my words and save myself some pride so I am going no contact. Its a two year long relationship and year and half of long distance. I am too frustrated with frequent fights and the moment he opens his mouth I feel like slamming the phone down.Our families are preparing for our wedding which is 6 months from now and all this sudden increased fights are making me so insecure about my future.What do I do?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (28 December 2013):
Call off the wedding because it is clear this relationship can not bring a happy marriage. If your relationship was so bad and you always wanted to break up, why do you feel so uncertain about your future now?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 December 2013):
 Well, he called you on your bluff. And now YOU have to feel what he's felt EVERY TIME you told him you were going to end it.
Give yourself and him some space and figure out of you WANT to marry him or not. The sooner you figure it out the sooner you can tell your parents.
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