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writes:Helo friends today after a lil bit of long time I again want your help.....actually i m in a relationship with s gal from last 1 nd half year,we both are happy together but their is a big problem about their family that I came to know before a week and I have all gone mad that they always fight with each other and also they aren't gud in respect of society because it came to hear that the society people has decided to force them to leave from the area and because of this situation if my parents vl come to know about it in future then I am 100% confident that they won't allow me marry her....what should I do friends shall i broke up,plz I m really in a big problem......help me out please thanks in advance....TK
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reader, llifton  +, writes (16 December 2013):
 People have to keep in mind that other cultures have differing customs. Family is huge where you're from. In more western societies, people couldn't give a damn less about the family. At least not nearly as much as where you're from. but family and honor matters to you where you're from. So I see your dilemma.
If you foresee this to be a huge problem and one that keeps you from being able to marry, then maybe you should consider ending it now before it gets even harder.
Good luck.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 December 2013):
 Who are you, Mister Darcy???
She is not her family. She has the right to aspire to be better than her raising, and if you prejudice her based on the action of others, what does that make you?
You should have asked these questions a year and a half ago before you became sexual, before you professed love to her. Now it just seems like a manufactured excuse to break up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2013): Either have your OWN MIND and be a free spirit, or follow the rest of the sheeple who have NO BALLS!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe point here is not about handling what people say but its all about the respect of my family,i really love her but you see the neighbours even the while society are planning to throw them away from their society....plz help
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (15 December 2013):
 If you can't handle what other people say or think of you, then break up with her. Going against the norm and living your life by your own code of ethics require strength and chutzpah (courage). If you know you can't handle it, then leave this girl to find a man who can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2013): Hi,
First off your dating the girl not her family.. You can't hold her responsible for what her family does or her family's repuation..you liked this girl that's why you are in a relationship with her so its pretty obvious she's a nice person and treats you well..
Breaking up with her cuz of her family's repuation is an awful thing to do,its wrong on your part..don't judge her based on her family..
But its sad ur thinking of leaving her you should stand by her thru tough times! You like her and that's it..
Don't let all this come in the way
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