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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner lies to me about looking at porn!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - A few months ago I found out my partner was looking at porn on the web. He denied it but when I showed him the proof he had to admit it. This really upset me and as I have just hit forty, I was already feeling old, so finding out he was looking at younger females with great ... (111 words)

New feature: Ratings by question asker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6785 days ago

15 March 2006 (M)

- Hi guys if you go to the "top agony aunts" link (www.dearcupid.org/people), you will now see ratings by question asker. I'll shortly be rolling this out to your column page too so you can see your ratings at a glance. Thanks! Andrew PS. As usual any feedback just ad... (63 words)

He has a girlfriend, but seems to be interested in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - help! ive recently met a guy. he has girlfriend, but told me he was attracted to me. one night we we stood outside the pub when out of the blue he kissed me, at xmas time it happened again, we got a little bit further but didnt have sex, i stopped it as it was outside the pub. ... (108 words)

I really want to get to know this guy, but I'm not sure how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F)

- HEY! here's the thing...i fancy a guy at school, who's a year below me. we do not have any classes together but I know he likes me, he stares at me every time I walk past.But, he is really really shy and has never talked to me. it is hard to get him on his own as well beca... (90 words)

He says he likes me, but he also likes every other girl too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I like this one boy a lot, and he claims he likes me, but then he tells other girls that he likes them too. I know that things will never work out, but I can't stop thinking about him. I don't want to like him AT ALL, and I seriously can't control my feelings. What can I do to ... (65 words)

I didn't bleed my first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - Does it always bleed? Hello, im 14 years old and i recently had sex with my bf on our 1 year anniversiry. ive never had sex before and i heard that when you have sex for the first time a women bleeds from her "downtown area" Anyway ive never had sex before and i wan... (76 words)

I had an affair and I can't forget about her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6824 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - Eight years ago I had an affair with the girl of my dreams - I was married then and I am still married now. I decided not to leave my wife at the time because I had a baby daughter. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, and I felt that I lost a good friend as well as a ... (185 words)

I haven't seen him in a few months after our break up, but he seems to be still interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Please, please help me i'm totally confused! i broke up with my boyfriend in January and we hadn't spoken until today. i was in town with my friend sitting outside a cafe (the cafe where everyone hangs out, and where we hung out when we were together). My ex came out to talk to ... (274 words)

He said he liked me, but then said he was joking. What's his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I wrote a question on here yesterday and bsically this lad I like said he would text me when I went away and his mate told me he fancied me and loads of other stuff which I know was true because I am also mates with this person. But I text him for a final time because I wanted ... (93 words)

I want to be with her, but she has problems with relationships!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I'm writing cause I'm very confused. I have been seeing a beautiful woman for over 2 years. I have fell in love with her very much and she does love me. We had a relationship but we had trouble with it and we have taken some time away from each other. We worked things out and I ... (132 words)

I want him to be with me, but he doesn't seem as interested anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Well, on New Year's Eve i slept with this guy, it was really unlike me but something made me do it. Then, since then he is all i can think about, at first, he was really nice, and i have stayed around his house a few times since then. However, now it seems like he is totally ... (189 words)

I told her I wasn't a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6824 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - hi im 18 years old and still a virgin because i wanted to wait for someone i liked, now i have been seein this girl who is 1 year younger things are going well an i think this will be the 1!!!the thing is she is quite experienced and i tld her im not a virgin just in case she ... (95 words)

I keep thinking about her, HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - Several weeks ago I initiated a break up with a woman that I had had 2 year relationship with. Due to circumstances this was not a live-in relationship but was very close- we had worked on some projects together. got along very well,found that we had a lot of shared interests ... (224 words)

I don't think I'm his type, I'm not rich.....but he seems to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - hey! i'm just wanting some advice coz there's this situation that is doing my head in big time!! To cut a long story short..before i went out with my boyfriend which is like 5 years ago there was this other bloke that i had a fling with and basically i was totally in love with ... (401 words)

He still has pics of his ex, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - DO I have the right to ask my boyfriend why he still keeps pictures of him and his ex? They went out about 3 years ago for one year. He says she had many problems, he lied to himself that he was in love with her, but he's still keeping pictures of her with all his memorabilia. ... (111 words)

I really don't want to be friends with my boyfriend's ex and her bf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Hello everyone! After having to come to terms with my boyfriend's first love being a very good friend of his, he's asked me to befriend her and her boyfriend. The issue is this.... I work with her boyfriend and can't stand him. He's even phoned me and had a go at me for ... (247 words)

How much time does she need before I let her know I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I just started working at a new job christmas week and of course there's a girl there that im starting to fall for(i think she knows too). We get along great,never a dull moment between us, and i think she is at least attracted to me, if not more. But here's the thing she just ... (117 words)

My bf's in the hospital, should I stay or go on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - my boyfriend of 9 years who is 13 years older has been in the hospital for 2 months and will be in longer. How do I rationalize staying with him or moving on? ... (36 words)

He wants to rush things, but I don't. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - hi, i have been with my fiance for 3 years, and recently he has given me an ultimatum. if i dont move in with him and out of my parents then he will finish with me. I had to say no because i am a student at university (im 21) and i have no income so we couldnt afford it. I do ... (213 words)

I'm in love with him....it's wrong....but what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Ok im 20 years of age and i have fallen madly in love with my Business School Teacher's Assente. I mean i know its wrong to try to start a relationship with him during school hours but how do i get to know him outside of school without giving any clues of anything goin on ... (154 words)

I'm falling for a guy that has a pregnant girlfriend. HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - i am having a relationship with a guy whose in a relationship and his girlfriend is 5 months pregnant. we are both 30 something and educated people, but i cant help it. he is so what i am looking for after a 7 year sham of a relationship what shall i do as i am falling for him... (58 words)

He said my fat bum doesn't bother him, but I know it does. That's why he's not interested in sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my fella for 11yrs and we love each other very much, but im begining to feel he's only with me out of pity and habit. He has a low libido and I'm highly sexed and pester him at least twice a week, which annoys him sometimes. All of his past girls have all been... (253 words)

I'm in love with her....but we're friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I am in love with a girl I am good friends with her so I don't want to say anything just in case it spoils our friendship! What should I do?... (31 words)

I can't my behavior towards her, I'm going crazy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6824 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I am a 34 year old guy and I have fallen in love with a 32 year old woman. The problem for me is that I am feeling very insecure in this relationship. She is very beautiful and often gets admiring looks, comments, telephone numbers, and propositions from other men. This... (364 words)

We clicked so well, but my parents didn't want that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I'm 22. I come from a 'well to do' family. I met a girl who had similar likes and dislikes to me. Seen her for about 3 months, we really clicked, never felt this before. Then i told my parents about her. They said don't see her, because she not in your 'league' and i could ... (117 words)

I met him, gave him my number and never heard from him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - After the break-up of a long term relationship, I have been single for 4 years. I am very shy and do find it difficult to talk to people I don't know well. One night when I was out I made eye contact with a man I felt very attracted to. He also appeared to be quite shy and a ... (193 words)

She says no body was as perfect as me, but I don't believe her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6823 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - A Question to all you woman out there, my wife tells me guys are attracted to women more from a phyisical stand point, women from a emotional. that a mans body, penis size are not important. I cant believe my wife who has been with better body, bigger size men can tell me I am ... (165 words)

She couldn't get over her ex, so she broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6822 days ago

15 March 2006 (M)

- My first girlfriend recently split up with me. She says that she hasn't gotten over her ex. We seemed to be doing ok since we were only seeing each other for a month. Is she lying and if not should i call her and ask to be friends?... (48 words)

I thought we were giving things another go, until a text message said we were "just fun and sex" and nothing more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Please help... I posted the other day about problems with this guy I am seeing. He's due to be moving away soon and didn't think we'd work out..Thanks for the thoughtful replies I received. Right, well things have been a bit up and down with us. It seems like I'm constantly n... (629 words)

Stunned by my ex's news, so how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I have recently split with my gay boyfriend, 21, after six months together. I am 33 and found out at the weekend that he has left me for his best friend who is 37. This man has just separated from his wife after 13 years of marriage and has two young kids. I have been left r... (232 words)

I wasn't in the mood, but he still got his relief, so should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - 2 nights ago, my boyfriend of 15 months wanted sex and I wasnt in the mood. After pestering me for some time and not getting anywhere, he went to the toilet and relieved himself. Should I be worried? I dont know what to do.... (44 words)

Is he scared, or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - so theres this guy i like, its been like 6 months and i know he kinda likes me. his friends have told me this. we hang out like once a month, and we talk on the computer. he has been hurt before and he admitted once he backs off when someone gets close to him. so i've given ... (214 words)

About to break up with him, but I'm terrified to be alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F)

- Hi. I am 29 and on the verge of breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years. He moved 400 miles to live with me over a year ago so doesnt have any family in the area. Last night we had another argument about my jealousy (he has a new female friend and I'm constantly snooping to ... (492 words)

He dumped me by text and now he won't see me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - He dumped me by text...after his ex has been messing with his head. he says there is no point meeting up, that its too early and it wont achieve anything! i have deleted his number, but i want to meet in person am i asking too much?... (48 words)

How much time together with his children's mother is too much time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - How much time together with his children's mother is too much time? My boyfriend, who I have been with for 10 months now, has two children with his ex-girlfriend. He and her had a solid relationship for about 7 years and an on-off relationship for 3 years. My concern is that ... (178 words)

In a month of dating, we've only seen each other four times. It's not enough for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - This is really bothering me. My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a month and we've seen each other about 4 times. It's been almost 5 days since we actually talked to each other. 4 times isn't enough for me, and in order for this relationship to work, I've re... (194 words)

I just can't bear to be "just friends" with my ex... Other couples can break up and still be friends, so why can't we?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6826 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - Did I do the right thing? My bf broke up with me in December due to some problems in the relationship. We were both still very much in love, but things just weren't working. I wanted to stay together and see if we could work things out, but he didn't anymore, so that was it. ... (760 words)

Sex with my girlfriend only lasts 5-10 minutes! What can I do to slow down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have sex once in awhile, but we don't last 5 to 10 mins before I finish. Is there any reason for it and how can I fix it? Also, her cherry hasn't even broke, but she feels me pushing on it when we do have sex. Is there anything that can help with it?... (61 words)

I'd like to ask her out, but she might think of me as just a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6826 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I'm 20 yr old and the girl I like is 16, almost 17. I've liked her for 4-5 months now. Two months ago she found out and she said she liked me too, although we can't go out because she's off the internet. I'm not meeting her till October when we go on hol. Tonight she told me ... (151 words)

He still texts the ex, and I don't feel comfortable with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend still texts his ex-girlfriend every day and tells me that they are still friends. At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, we didn't think our relationship would reach another level, so he kept his previous girlfriend of 2 years. After some suspicio... (134 words)

I'm dating my "Plan B", but if "Plan A" asks me out, do I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I have been dating a boy for about 2 weeks and I ain't sure if I am THAT interested in him. So today one of my good GUY-FRIENDS tells me that my dream crush, that I have always liked but never got to, was going to ask me out! I was so excited, but then remembered I already ... (105 words)

I get breakfast in bed, but I don't really feel that I belong at my boyfriend's house, since he hasn't asked me to move in...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I have been in a fantastic loving relationship for 5 months now. My boyfriend lets me stay at his house every night of the week. He is very giving; for example he cooks, does housework and makes me breakfast in bed. Lately he has been getting irritated that I don't do as much ... (146 words)

I'm bisexual, interested in a young man, and the object of a woman's affection too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M) - I’m a bisexual male. Not totally ‘out’, only ‘out’ to my closest friends. I have had sexual ‘relations’ with both males and females, but I find myself attracted more to males rather than females. Two things are bothering at the moment: 1. There is this boy, my age that is a... (457 words)

Could my BF's viewing of exploitative child porn have just been a fluke?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I wrote earlier, about my bf looking at underage girls, child porn, or whatever. I wasn't trying to find out what an appropriate age to be looking at this is. For the record he is 20. I was hoping to see if this would be considered a normal thing for a guy to look at a ... (154 words)

I get the feeling my ex might be interested in more than friendship. Me too, but is it too much work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6826 days ago

15 March 2006 (F) - I need help!! My ex boyfriend and I live apart as we are at different universities. We had been together since our schooldays but always found it hard to be apart. We finished the relationship a while ago as we couldn't be sure that it was possible to still be in love with eac... (208 words)

How can I get her back when she won't even meet with me. Its driving me crazy..please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

15 March 2006 (M)

- Hey there guys and girls, i have an issue, about one month ago I had a split with my girlfriend, of 2yrs (on and off)... We had a big argument, about nothing which turned into -....- I told her if she wasnt happy then i will catch her later!.... She said its not as simpl... (403 words)