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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)... (39 words)

She broke up with me, but I would really like to get her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6838 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - Hi I don't know what to do. I'm 19 and my g/f - who's 22 - broke up with me over a week ago after asking me to stay for a week at her house. It came as a shock to me and I am still very hurt but she says she can't take the emotions involved and that she prefers being single and ... (178 words)

How can I tell if I'm really in love with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6838 days ago

31 March 2006 (?)

- how do you know when your in love? theres a guy hes the same age and we go to school together. im really close to him. i think i might be in love with him. i think about him all the time. when im with him im really happy and i want to get close to him. when im not, hes al... (157 words)

My ex contacts me during parts of the week, but am I just her back-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - Hey guys, Thanks for taking the time to answer all of my questions, you've all been hugely helpful. Anyway, here's another: I'm trying now my hardest to not contact my ex girlfriend, but here's my problem and it's actually a little annoying to me. Sunday through ... (114 words)

Older online woman who I'm falling for big time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - hi, im 16 and met a 27 year old girl on the net i want to meet her but she wants to wait. we get on well and really like each other. we clicked the first time we spoke. we live far apart so that causes some problem like. i think im falling in love with her what should i do. ... (67 words)

Hey Moderaters how do you know if the question is a hoax?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6836 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - Hi there, A question about dearcupid.org. I read one question on here and someone suspected it of being a hoax. How can you tell whether the article is a hoax or not?? A.N. Other??... (44 words)

Is my conern for her justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (M)

- I am wondering if I should be concerned about this. The other night I called my girlfriend and she was drunk. I talked to her and she happened to be very horny and was discussing what she wanted to do with me sexually. anyways we talked for a few minutes and she told me to call ... (145 words)

do I cut her out of my life or try to be mature?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - How to let go in an unclear situation. I was in a relationship with an amazing young lady for a year and a half, I'm now 28 and she's 21. We had a wonderful time-lots of respect and love and freedom to express ourselves. We split up because she does'nt want to settle down f... (166 words)

She turned ME down so now why is she so jealous all the time!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for over 7 years we have dated before but nothing ever got very serious i was young and stupid to say the least we have always had a good relationship we are very much alike both only children both spoiled she even comments on how i remind her ... (191 words)

We don't have sex. Is divorce the answer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6838 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - my husband and I have been having marital problems. We have been to a counsellor but nothing has changed. We don't have sex. I think it's been 3 months now. He never wants it, and I think it's because he's afraid of not performing, which has happened several times. I have ... (98 words)

She used to be a swallow!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - My g.f used to swallow after Oral sex. Now, she wont. She jumps up and runs to the bathroom and then i hear her spitting. I could understand if she never did that before. But SHE HAS!. ... (39 words)

I called a break and now I want him back, how do I go about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - I got this problem. I dated this guy for almost 5 years and recently i thought i had feelings for another guy so, we took a break. But it turns out i didn't have feelings for that other guy it was the same guy all along. I love him more then anything on this earth and i want ... (88 words)

Could our relationship affect their friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - Hi I am 25 and still a virgin and I don't have a problem with that it has been a choice for me to wait, I like this guy who is 23 and he likes me too we are actually going on a date this weekend. The problem is that he is not a virgin and I think this may put him off beca... (143 words)

We got drunk, made out, fooled around... And now she's gone mentalist with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6838 days ago

31 March 2006 (M)

- Last Friday night whilst I was out I bumped into this girl that I work with and I really like. We had a few drinks and she ended up staying at my place. We fooled around a bit but nothing serious because she was really drunk. When she left the next morning she said she wou... (271 words)

She's chatting to her ex again. But I like him. But she's soooo beautiful! What will happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have this friend. Let's just call her B. B and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We love each other like sisters, and she's one of those people that I'll be totally sad to leave when high-school graduation rolls around. We've had our sh... (450 words)

Does she fancy me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

31 March 2006 (M)

- Hi guys! Wondered what you think to this. There's a girl I work with and we get on really well. I'm not usually one to get involved with people I work with but she seems different to all the rest. There have been quite a few times where I think that she's not just being nice ... (292 words)

Should I tell him about my foolin' around with my cousin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - I need some help before i do something very stupid! now keep in mind i was young when i did this when i didn't really know what i was doing but yet not extremely young. My boyfriend thinks its good we tell each other all of our past well i did but not about something else. He ... (203 words)

Our emotional affair (never had sex) ended two years ago. Now he's back in contact shall I savour the moment? (editor: long but worth it)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - Can anyone help me? I am a single woman, aged 32, who fell in love (unintentionally) with a man I met 4 years ago. He was 31 at the time and had a girlfriend of 10 years - he had just started living with her. As much as I tried to walk away, the power of our attractio... (788 words)

I've had dreams about this man since high school, its seems like we are meant to be but we are both married! Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - why should i feel sad knowing that an old friend got married..? we used to be classmates during high school days, way back then , all we do is fight and we dont seem to agree on anything. but both of us know that we secretly like each other so much that we tried to hide it... (234 words)

This split is DESTROYING me, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6814 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke it off a while ago and it seems that I just can't get over her... I love her to death but I know that I have to get over it because it's not the same way for her. Everybody tells me time will fix things but it just seems that their are just something... (83 words)

Please help me deal with my childrens pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - one of the last questions i asked was i wanted my ex-husband back. someone replied to stay in touch with him, keep the communication open. GUESS WHAT!! He came back to me crying. We have two kids. "WE" decided our love was one of a kind. We promised the kids we would ne... (211 words)

How do you build trust in a long distance relationship? Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - How do you deal with a long distance relationship and not worry about them cheating or doing something behind your back? Just mainly how do you deal with it?... (30 words)

I am so insecure because he's fibbing about his drug use!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just been through a rough patch. It seems as though he doesn't know how to bring up stuff with me thus being not so open. One thing after another new things have been bought up. I just found out that he has the ocassional smoke even after asking him indi... (289 words)

I like him but I'm too shy to speak to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

30 March 2006 (F)

- Theres a guy i really like and i'm pretty sure he knows that. The problem is i'm quite shy so I can never speak to him in person. Now i'm sure theres this other girl who likes him as well but he's always flirting with her. I've liked this guy for ages and now i'm really ... (70 words)

I 'm a jealous guy and I want to assault every man who looks at my new gf. How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - Met the girl of my dreams and fell for her straight away, even leaving a girlfriend to be with her. After a while she told me that she was date raped whilst on holiday, and afterwards she ran away from home, got involved with drugs and drank heavily. She told me that she... (140 words)

My bf dated my sister and me at the same time..how do I find out what they did without it looking like I don't trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - okay i just found out my boyfriend and my sister were dating while i was dating him. and i am unsure how far they went together and if he expects the same from me. i have forgiven them both but i wish i knew how to ask "bob" what they did without him thinking i don't trust him ... (65 words)

I make him super horny and he's a virgin...am I being fair to him, trying to take his viginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6838 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - ok my boyfriend and i are in a weird part of our relationship and he has changed from not sex ever to what happens happens to he would do me the second he had the chance. we are in our third month and i am not sure if i just pushed him into having sex. i made him super horny ... (96 words)

I met another man who is good to me..but I don't want to lose my ex. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - im reli stuck i have been wiv ma boyfriend 6 month n i love him sooo much but we split up but i always think about him alot and i have met another lad but he is 27 and im only 17 but he is reli kind to me and makes me laugh but i just dont wanna loose my ex boyfriend wat should ... (89 words)

I went to a party and can't remember much about it. I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - im 16, and last weekend i went to a house party, and didnt think id drink a lot. the only problem is i can only remember arriving there, some guy taking me upstairs, and then my friends shaking me trying to keep me awake.when i got home i went to the toilet and was bleeding and ... (119 words)

I'm not quite sure if he's flirting with me or just being nice....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - Dose this mean he is flirting with me? He is my colleague and I'm not sure if he fancy me or not. Becasue he is a married man so I don't know the words or the way he treated me is normal or something special because I am quiet youger than him. But everytime when we're t... (117 words)

I'm going to be getting counselling, does anyone have any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F)

- I wrote a problem on here a few months ago asking for people who had experience of counselling for advice on whether it helped etc. As my problems have worsened, I have recently made my decision to go ahead with counselling and have made an appointment to see someone next... (166 words)

He keeps promising he isn't going to lie and every time he breaks that promise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a little problem, could you pease help me with it if you can? I'm almost 16 and in a relationship with a guy who I really love. like I say, I really love him, but theres just one problem... recently, I've found out that he's lied to me about a lot of things,... (301 words)

What's his game does he want me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - I met a fantastic guy in june last year which i fell for. It was going really well and after six weeks his friends were asking me questions about where the relationship was going. I confronted him to which he replied that he was not looking for a relationship. I was a little ... (437 words)

My husband wants me to do things that make me feel dirty, humiliated and miserable, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - My husband thinks he is a good lover. He goes at it without any thought for me. Asks if I would like him do this and that which his previous girlfriend liked. He makes me feel dirty. Thinks touching the clitoris not licking is masterbation and when he tries to go down I just ... (189 words)

I'm 14 with facial hair can any one help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - At what age should i be looking to shave at as im 14 and already I have facial hair. what should i do please help asap... (26 words)

Where's the borderline for possesive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is on the borderline of being possessive. I know its partly because he's putting in so much that he's got a lot to loose, but how do you know if someone crosses the line to being obsessive and controlling? and if they cross over, is it forgivable if they are ... (64 words)

My abusive alcoholic partner has destroyed me now I'm confused over my love for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - I have just recently got back together with the man that for four years after we split up I thought was the love of my life. We were together after he left his fiancee to be with me after we started an affair and I thought it was the real thing. We split up after about 10 m... (268 words)

I have a broken heart, help me mend it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F)

- I was in a relationship for seven years. My boyfriend left me seven months ago and relocated to his home town, promptly met someone else and is now living with her. I feel that I have nursed my hurt long enough and everyone says move on and meet someone new. Here is my ... (149 words)

Why do I always have to make the moves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - Hi All, Recently I have told a 28 yr-old guy about how I feel about him, basically I like him. He told me it was very flattering and that he admired my courage of telling him. He told me not to worry since I have done my very best and it is his responsibility to give me an an... (442 words)

My boyfriend has started taking drugs! What do I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - what do you do if your boyfriend is started to drink and do pot for the very first time since you have been going out with him? ... (27 words)

I'm starting to fancy my ex's friend, is this good or bad!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - Hey guys, another question on a slightly different subject. I have been talking a little bit with this one girl who is friends with both me and my ex, and is also the ex-girlfriend of one of my buddies. She is cute and easy to talk to since she's a friend of mine, but I'm we... (112 words)

Shall we get back together for the kids sake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - I have been separated from my wife for 10 months now, and only recently have we began to talk without anger. We have 3 kids, and because of work, I am a distance dad who travels to see them about twice a month. Recently, my wife has been pressuring me continually to try and ... (208 words)

Been chatting and emailling with a girl... What's a good time to ask her to dinner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

30 March 2006 (M) - I met a girl on the internet recently, and we have been emailing back and forth for the last few weeks. We have this thing going where we ask the other person 20 questions with each email, and then they answer them and send 20 of their own when they reply. We've spoken on the ... (152 words)

Any advice for a depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Hey there I hate to ask questions on here but I just wanted some peoples advice... I think Im suffereing from depression.. I have been feeling very very down lately and I havent been able to focus on things that concern Work, Family or even my Boyfriend. I dont mean Ive... (173 words)

We planned our lives together and now he's acting so cold, what's going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6837 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and have lived with him for a year. We had been talking about getting married, and following each other wherever we need to go for grad school. Recently he broke up with me, saying that he still loves me, but he doesn't know if he is ... (219 words)

Do I stay with the guy who treats me well, or go back to my first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6841 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Help I'm 15 and I'm sooo confused. I was going out with this guy (a) for ages and I can truly say I loved him to bits, but things didn't work out between us. Anyway now I'm going out with (b) and things are great between us. He treats me fantastically and we get on great sex... (206 words)

Not sure if the girl I'm interested has a boyfriend already. How can I find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

29 March 2006 (M) - I want to ask this girl out. The only problem is that she has a child and while I'm not saying I wouldn't go near a girl who has a child, I don't know whether she already has a boyfriend or is a single mother. Being shy, I can't bring myself to ask her this. I think we get o... (109 words)

I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to do because it has finally ... (137 words)

My boyfriend is a distant relative...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Hi I am 13 and have a lovely boyfriend but he's related distantly. Is that OK? And also I think I'm fat around my tummy. What can I do to stop this? I think I'm pretty and stuff but I think my tummy is fat. ... (45 words)

Online dating hooked me up with a cute chick, aged 18... who then turned out to be 16!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6840 days ago

29 March 2006 (M) - Hello. I'm 28. I've met this great girl through an online dating service which of course you are required to be 18 for and it even asks for credit card info. She said she was 18. Three weeks into the relationship, she confesses to me that she is actually only 16. Now, i'm stuck ... (110 words)