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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My vagina lips swell really big after sex, but go back down. Is there something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Hey, i noticed once a few days having sex, it felt really weird down below and my vagina lips had swollen up and felt uncomortable, after going to the doctors and that and got checked out, we thought it could have been the use of a flavoured condom, but the test results came ... (175 words)

We are no longer friends because she disapproves of my boyfriend. Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have written here before about starting a relationship with an age gap. I'm 18 (f) and my boyfriend is 32. I am happy in this relationship. One of my best friends has now stopped talking to me. She has never met my boyfriend, and she has let me know that she thinks the w... (265 words)

This guy doesn't treat me so well and he's always making up excuses. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F)

- Hi I'm a 17 year old girl This guy used to treat me like shit and we used to fall out all the time though we both fancy each other like mad. he was into mindgames which is why he treated me like this...but he changed about a year ago and started treating me nicely, but stil... (234 words)

She's always giving me hugs, but I need to know for sure that she likes me. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - Theres a girl at school. She is a bit flirty around boys, ive known her for quite a while now as a friend. She is very pretty, and i sometimes feels she likes me. He does touch me a lot (as in my hand, my face sometimes etc). She also talks to me quite a bit. We hug every... (134 words)

Yikes! My Mom is thinking of sending me to bootcamp! What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I snuck over to my boyfriends house and my mom found out and my mom's thinking about sending me to bootcamp what should I do?... (25 words)

Is it normal for a person to tell you "let's keep our relationship a secret". What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Is it normal for someone that you just started dating to tell you to keep your relationship a secret?... (19 words)

I liked this guy, then I got a boyfriend. He's now my ex and I don't know what to do about the first guy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Last september I ended up sitting next to the guy i had a crush on in my physics class. At first it was really difficult for us to talk to eachother as he's pretty girl shy and my social skills are generally pretty poor, but after a year we built up a relationship and ... (448 words)

I respect him and I'm grateful...but I am NOT attracted to him physically? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I'm married 22 years to a man who is good to me and who is very attracted to me, I respect him, I'm grateful for him. I wasn't in love when I married him. My selfish focus was to have a family and believed I would eventually be attracted to him in time. Foolish, I know. I've ... (117 words)

For some reason we couldn't get him to stay in me during intercourse. Are we doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in our late twenties and both virgins. The other day we tried to have sex for the first time and we couldn’t get his penis to stay in me. We tried with both me and him on top. Is there anything that we can do to make it easier to stay in.?... (57 words)

He's in the army. And he masturbates to porn while away from me..does this mean he will cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F)

- im really worried lately, my boyfriend is 20 and im 19, hes in the army, and everytime he comes back he always has to have a porn magazine with him with naked women in it and he masturbates over them whilst in the army, does this mean he is interested in other women? or will ... (76 words)

I haven't met him yet, but he says we can meet sometime. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i no this boy but i havent met him but he knows me and he thinks im hot and he said can we meet somehwere out the way what does that mean ... (32 words)

I'm still in love with my ex, but now I have a new "friend" also!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Hello,I'm in desperate need of help and advice concerning a problem to which I have posted before.It concerns my relationship with my boyfriend/exboyfriend.As I posted before,I'm currently 23 years old while he's 40.Because we're 17 years apart,he broke up with me because he ... (1149 words)

Not sure where I stand with him...Does he see me as a friend or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Not sure where I stand with this lovely guy who I am friends with. We’ve been hanging out for about 3 months. He has been really busy lately so I have backed off somewhat because I thought that is what he wanted. His texts had been less frequent for about a month and a half ... (245 words)

I really like her but haven't seen her in over a month! How can I start seeing her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6808 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - Hey, please help me. Im 16 and i haven't seen this girl i really like who is 15 in over a month and i don't know why. Does she not want to see me again or something? i would ring her but im kind of shy. Can anyone please tell me how i can start seeing her again and why this has ... (64 words)

My bf found out I lied about my past lovers and now he's upset..how can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i lied to my boyfriend about how many people i slept with before him and he can't seem to get over it, i've tried to say all that i could but he didnt even want me near him ... things are better now but it just doesnt feel the same between us. what do i do to make things the ... (63 words)

We're engaged but I used a fake AOL screen name and found out he's looking for more! Am I being deceitful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I made an aol screen name to talk to my fiance to check to see if he was cheating on me.. Am I deceitful to do that??... The story is.. I'm a full-time office assistant in the morning and a student by night and on top of that i'm a mother of two. I go to college every ot... (422 words)

Which guy do I choose? The new guy is great but I love my ex bf! Help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Several days ago my boyfriend and i got back together after splitting up two weeks previously. The reason for our break up was because he cheated on me twice, the second time after he'd just dropped me home from an evening out with friends and telling me he loved me. He dumped ... (626 words)

Could his attitude towards me be because of our age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - weve been together for 3 yrs,.i dont understand his attitude towards me sometimes he likes me sometimes he dont..his 45 yrs of age and im only 21,,but i do loved him,.but his always holding back,.because of our age gap..... (39 words)

I have a different discharge the day after I have sex.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - When i have sex, the next day i have a funny colour discharge. is this normal?... (16 words)

He keeps letting me down and going with his mates instead! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and up until lately things have been fantastic, the problem is he keeps letting me down with our plans for a night out with his mates. We make arrangements then as soon as he gets a sniff of the pub he would rather go on a night ... (231 words)

He lied to me alot to get me, he changed, but I think things are back to normal. Should I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I'm not sure I love the guy I am with (I'll call him H)... we have been together for almost a year now and have elaborate plans for our future together. The problem is I'm not sure I love H! You see, H is not the kind of guy that I would want to fall in love with. He is okay... ... (840 words)

My Ex was very emotionless, she didn't even cry about our breakup! Should I let her know what I think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and she showed very little emotion over it. She really isn't much of an emotional person, and I think it's something to do with her past. Her and her ex boyfriend suffered a miscarriage about 4 years ago, and she told me that she do... (310 words)

He says our seeing eachother has to be a secret, what's this about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - met this guy, was kissing him for a week,really nice but then he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend however said he still wanted to remain friends which was good because we are in the same circle of friends. but now we are still texting and still meeting up and i ... (83 words)

I don't feel attracted to him physically, but he treats me well. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I met a guy on the train 2 years ago who is 26, i am 27. We get on great and i do feel very connected to him in a lot of important ways except sexualy. I do fancy him but one of the reasons we split was because i never wanted sex, i was fine when i did it, but i never initiate... (323 words)

I can't seem to keep my erection. Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - Ive got a bit of a problem Id really appreciate some help with. I split up with my wife whom I loved about a year ago, I stupidly embarked on a relationship which I hoped would work, but didnt and throughout although I got an erection during foreplay, as soon as it came to ... (119 words)

I can't handle the breaking up/getting back together thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6803 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago my girlfriend told me she doesn't want to be in this relationship anymore .... now this is not the first time she's done this, any "discussion" we have had invlolved her being wrong generally ended up with her saying, "ok we're finished". this used to ... (216 words)

My boyfriend has changed, and it's not for the better either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F)

- i feel that hoping for a mircale to happen with our relationship. it feels are relationship is going from bad to worse. i knew before i entered into this relationship that long distance ones were hard. but i feel that the relationship as lost all of it fun and now its just alo... (316 words)

I have lost my sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6812 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i have a problem which seemed to have started about six months ago in that i have lost my sexual desire and drive i am 47 years old ... (28 words)

Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

27 March 2006 (M)

- Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in this thread and I will email you... (136 words)

He left, took the car, cancelled the direct debits and emptied our join bank accounts! Now he's back but his family HATE me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - my husband and i have been together 4 16years. we have 4 children and have been having problems 4 the last 2 yrs. we had major bust up about him keeping on phoning and receiving calls daily from another woman. this ended with him leaving our home with my eldest son who idolises ... (225 words)

We had sex with a condom, but I think she may be pregnant...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - Could she be pregnant? Hi there. I am worrying that my girlfriend might be pregnant. On the 18th of this month we had sex with a condom and I have cum inside of her, but with the condom still on. Can she be pregnant? It is now the 27th. Please help?... (54 words)

I never wanted them until they didn't want me... Am I afraid of something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend.I had a couple without a "title" Even though they have had asked me out i never wanted to be with them until they didnt want me anymore.Am i afraid to geet close or express myself !?... (48 words)

Should I be concerned about his weird phone habits!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have a question. Okay, here's the situation. My boyfriend is pretty good, I'd say our relationship is pretty healthy, we respect each other and have separate interests and friends, encourage each other, etc. He cares for me when I don't feel well, and vice-versa. We have sim... (178 words)

I've promised God I won't cheat again... But how will I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - im a very happy married women who fell for another mans sweetness towards me,we recently got a little out of hand and ended up having sex. i can't get it out of my head because the only man i love is my husband. i could never tell him this ever. i promised my self and god that ... (68 words)

I'm too ugly to have a boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Ive never had a boyfreind and Im 13 Im so afraid Im ugly. Even if I did have one I wouldnt be able to tell my parents they dont trust me. Pleas help me!... (35 words)

Should I act on this dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Is it a good idea to act on something based on what I dreamt last night? I am keen on this guy but haven't done anything about it because I'm not sure if he likes me and I'm not sure if it really is a good idea because we are friends and I would hate to ruin the friendship w... (137 words)

Engaged to be married, I had a "little to much to drink" and slept with my best friend's fiance (who is also my fiance's best friend)...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Cheating....... Ok, I know that cheating is NEVER ok, and I don't support thouse who cheat, but I have cheated. For the first time in my life. 2 days ago, I slept with my best friend's fiance. I am also engaged to be married. My fiance is the man I slept with best friend... (214 words)

How soon should after being dumped should you start dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Hi, i was just wondering how soon is appropriate to start seeing someone else after spliting up with a long-term boyfriend. I am in position where, my boyfriend dumped me about 2 weeks ago (after 3 yrs) and a male friend of mine has told me that he has feelings for me. im not ... (116 words)

I have a big problem with my boyfriend's sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6814 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - hi,my name is katie. i have a problem with my boyfriend and his closness with his sister. in the past he has told her stuff about our personal realsionship i was mad and we got over it. she calls him all the time asking a bunch of noisey questions. for her he'll drop anything ... (254 words)

I'm fat, average looking, unemployed, 21 and have only had one girl interested in me... Ever! (and she was 14)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - What's wrong with me?? I'll admit, I'm not the best catch, im overweight (who isnt these days??) im average lookin not striking and at the mo im unemployed. Throughout my life, ive obviously had crushes, fallen for even fallen in love with some girls, but they never seem ... (281 words)

He keeps driving by my house and work, but never makes a move...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i can't figure this single guy out, when we first met the sparks flew, until i brought up his daughter who was standing with him and then he turned cold. fastforward 2 months of having him driving by my house constantly , i came out of work and it appeared he was waiting for ... (153 words)

How can I show her that the 14 year age difference doesn't matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - Ok I am in love with a girl that is 18. We were together for a year but she ended things because of the age difference. The age difference is 14 years and she feels her family won't accept it. She is with another guy now just to be with someone but she still loves me and wants ... (108 words)

I need to know where I stand with her...but I don't want to appear desperate. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

27 March 2006 (M)

- There is this girl that I like alot, we have fooled around a bit in the past but nothing serious. At the weekend I saw her whilst I was out in the town, we hung out for a couple of hours and then later she came round to my place. She was completely wrecked and all over the... (198 words)