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writes: My boyfriend still texts his ex-girlfriend every day and tells me that they are still friends.At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, we didn't think our relationship would reach another level, so he kept his previous girlfriend of 2 years. After some suspicion I found out he was seeing another woman. He told me that it was a very difficult relationship that he hadn't ended, and that he realised that he had fallen in love with me.After ending the relationship with his ex and being very open about it, he continues to text her for support and friendship. This makes me very jealous and I feel that this may interfere with our relationship as I don't feel comfortable with it.How can we come to a compromise?
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reader, bel2Girl +, writes (21 March 2006):
Hi thanks for the advice. He has understood a little bit and now texts her less, but I am trying to understand that he is a very sensitive man too and doesn't want to hurt her by ignoring her completely. At least he shows me wat he writes because he has nothing to hide. I am trying to control my jealousy.
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reader, addison +, writes (15 March 2006):
 By the sounds of what you have written, he cheated to be with you, and what do they say? Once a cheater always a cheater?? Be careful hon of what hes doing...maybe their relationship is not really over even though they say they are? A text a day is pretty rude. You are with him now, not her. I am not surprised you are jealous! I don't feel there is a compromise here. Either he is with you or he isn't. Let him make the choice. Your self worth is more important than this.
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