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writes: so theres this guy i like, its been like 6 months and i know he kinda likes me. his friends have told me this. we hang out like once a month, and we talk on the computer. he has been hurt before and he admitted once he backs off when someone gets close to him. so i've given him space, and the last time, he came to me and wanted to hang out. He came over, and he was really nice, hugging me and giving me a kiss. (this is the first time that happened, every other time, it was strictly platonic) then i see him in school and he is still nice, but he seems like he is holding back. so another week or so goes by and i'm talking to him on IM and I say something like do you want to be daring and hang out with me sooner than usual? he says haha I don't like to be daring and signs off. I don't know if he is telling me he doesn't like me or he is scared that I want to be closer to him (and why did he come over a week ago if he doesn't like me?) I'm 15, help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (15 March 2006):
 He does not know what he wants, he is immature and showing it, just leave him and see what happens.
Dont make the moves and be cool with him, he will soon make up his mind if he is interested or not if he thinks you are just not bothered.
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (15 March 2006):
 It sounds, to me, like he is just playing games with you. It is a sad fact of life, but at your age, a lot of guys are just immature and they don't know what they want and so they kind of jerk you around. I think you should just leave him alone all together. If he likes you, then he will start making an effort to get to know you. And if he doesn't come around, then you were better off by not wasting any more time on him. Try to find another guy who really wants to spend time with you!
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