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writes: Hi there, to be very much straight forward, i had a girlfriend, then one day I talked with her very rudely and after some hard talk all we got is break up.Then after a month i tried to contact her but she didn't answer my call and didn't respond to my attempts to contact her. Then one day i managed to talk to her but she straight forwardly said me not to try to contact her anymore, she doesn't wanna keep that sort of contact with me.But i am not happy at all with this situation.So please tell me what to do?As she is now playing very hard to get, should i just throw her out of my mind or there is any possibility of making up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): All that you can do is learn from your mistakes. Treat girls properly next time!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 I think you're wasting your time. If she says she isn't interested, you're only going to frustrate yourself if you keep trying and keep getting rejected.
I suggest the best course for you is to carry on without her. You may not like it, but those are the hazards of Love, right?
Frankly, she's sounding a little bit infantile over this issue, and so maybe you're better off without the tantrums. And anyway, if she secretly harbours some desire to have you back... well then, she knows your phone number. She knows where you live. If she wants to get back together (and I doubt very much that she does, by the way), then she'll be in touch.
Don't waste your time and effort, if not for your own self-esteem, then because there's a very fine line between hoping to make up with an ex... and stalking.
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reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (17 July 2006):
 If she said she doesn't want that kind of contact from you, and asked you basicly to leave her alone, there should be no question as to what you should do. Leave her alone! Respect other people's wishes and move on.
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reader, Brutiesbrother +, writes (17 July 2006):
Well It seems obvious that she won't talk to you over the phone. So don't try to talk to her over the phone, Its too easy for her to hang up on you. What you have to do is talk to her in person. Take a nice hot shower, Put on some good smelling cologne(make sure it smells good, If it doesn't smell good to you, then it won't smell good to her), You know get all cleaned up. Go to the store, get her some flowers(Roses are the choice flower) but no chocolate(It makes you look like you just want down her pants), and go to her house and talk to her in person. Tell her how you feel about her and Especially tell her your sorry. Chances are She'll at least talk to you and try to work something out, But if she doesn't budge, Then Screw it! If she doesn't give a Sh*t, then why should you? Hope everything works out.
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