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writes: I am 15 nearly 16. I am in love with a boy called Mr.X and has been my best friend for the past 11 years. I don't know what to do because I know he doesnt feel the same way at the moment. Also, there is my boyfriend. His name is Mr.Q. He isnt good looking, but I like him loads! I feel so awquid because he is in love with me, I am unsure that I feel the same way! He keeps trying to kiss me (snog) and I dont want to because of my past. In my past two boys kissed me and told there mates how good/bad I was. It has put me off ever since! I need your help! please?
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reader, Kinger25 +, writes (17 July 2006):
Hi there. Being in love at your age is probably harder than at any other age because you have so many new feelings to deal with. When I was 15/16, I was totally obsessed with a man 4 years older than me and he played me off a treat! He would come and call for me and we would all hang around together but he always had a girlriend and did not feel the same way towards me as I did to him. I even kept a coke can that he'd drank out of, for 2 years!! I liked him that much. When I got to 18, this man suddenly decided that he liked me after all of these years. Because I'd had so many feelings for him previously I decided to give it a go with him and Oh My Goodness - what a mistake I made. When I started seeing him I found out what he was really like and quite quickly I went from loving him to death to not standing the sight of him!! We are all human beings with feelings and we can fall in and out of love so quickly at a young age. My advice to you would be to just stay friends with Mr X at the moment and build on that before you even contimplate telling him how you feel. It would be awful to lose him as a friend by expressing your feelings for him too quickly. As for Mr Q, the main ingrediant to any relationship is trust. If you really like this one then you MUST trust him. Not all men are the same and if he likes you there is no way he would want to tell his mates how good or bad you kiss. Try and get to know him as best as you can and then make a judgement as to whether or not he is trustworthy, because in saying all of the above, there ARE some nasty guys out there who would do anything for a laugh with their mates. Be careful, be wise and good luck!!
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