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writes: I'm a teenager I just moved into a new house in a different state and own a Farm. Well about a month after we moved in, we met this new neighbor and one was my age. I found out he liked me but as the year went on I never liked him and finally after 8 months of him liking me nonstop I went out with him. We are now going out but I feel his friends don't like me but his family loves me. Mine loves him a lot. He is so great and nice and I love him and I know he loves me but I don't think his friends do and it is kinda weird being his girlfriend and have his friends not like me. So please help me!
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reader, Martyrmachine +, writes (17 July 2006):
 I had a similar thing...my friends didnt like my girlfriend and her friends hated me. although they never told me so, it was pretty obvious. The way we solved it was that we all were in communication with each others friends, and we all just became friends, even tho if we werent close, we just talked athings over, if for example my gf's friends were mad that i took the whole of her weekend (they want her too, ya know :D). we would usually reach a compromise, so that i get to be with her for a day and they get to be with her another day. this has also greatly improved my relationship strenght - as her friends like me, they keep an eye on her, so she owuldnt do anything to hurt me (cheat on me or such) and they always put me in a good name whenever she's mad.my advice is to try and hang out with his friends, try understanding them, and give them a few favours whenever they need a hand - trust me, being friends with your partner's friends is a very good thing, as atm they might be plotting against you, telling your guy to dump you or try to make him think that you're not worth him (etc etc). if you could turn that around, your relationship would definitely last.
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reader, Cindy lou And Babbi +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Hy hunni
If you are worried that his friends like you or not jst ask ur bf to ask them and c what they say and if they dnt ask for reasons why but at the end of the day its u and him it dusnt matter if they like you or they dont all that matters is that he likes you, and i know it would be nice if his friends liked you aswell but if they don;t then dont get worried about it and see what happens and as long as u and your bf have each other you will be happy
luv babbi xxxxxxxxxxx
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