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writes: Can you really get over with being contact with your ex?I dont want to lose contact, as he does not want either, so he asked me to keep contact and never lost touch when we broke up 3 months ago, but I just found it was so hard to really move on since we keep emailing and testing every other day. I tried to not reply his email for almost 5 days and went out Hawaii for vocation, but I badly missed him and even dreamed him being with me there. He is my first love and it just so hard to move on! But I CAN Not let him come back to me one more time like he did several times before since he does not really love me and it won't go anywhere. Is there any tips to quickly get over but still remain touch with ur ex?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (18 July 2006):
 Hi
Whilst it is good sometimes to maintain contact with your ex to find out how he/she is, you have to decide if you can cope with that. For you it obviously isnt working this way so it might be advisable either to limit contact to barely minimum or cease contact since you obviously dont want to rekindle the relationship.
My advise though would be to try and avoid contact as much as you can to create avenues for you to forget about him and move on with your life.
Take care dearie.
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