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writes: Hey, This is going to be long sorry! Im in my last year at uni, ive liked my female friend for over a year and i told her this last year because i felt that we had chemistry and to me it was blatent! But when i told her she didnt say anything about it, not even no i dont like you like that, so i left it thinking that i was wrong in my feelings and we are still friends. Anyway she left uni this year and came to visit a few weeks ago. We went out and all through the night she seemed really into me, like always sitting really close, talking up close, and so on, I just thought she's drunk, and didnt join in these things cos i took me a while to get over her and i didnt want to bring my feelings back. Then later that night we were travelling back and she held my hand, but like stroking my hand too, and i had to leave then but it really frustrated me because it took me so long to get over the fact that i felt stupid telling her i liked her and controlling my feelings and then she just does all that, so im confused and i want to know what you guys think? Do you think she actually does like me and was just scared to say? thankyou sorry its soooo long!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): I'm not sure why did you assume that her silence meant that she didn't want anything with you. I think it just caught her off guard, maybe it was bad timing ... I think her new attitude is her way of telling you that she likes you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): I thnk it sounds like she likes you, but wants you to make the first move by asking her out....you have to risk rejection if you want to take things to a romantic level, but that is up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Maybe she's afraid of losing what you two have already as in the good friendship you have built up over the years??
The only way you really have of finding out if she likes your or not is askin her straight out when you are both on your own with no other distractions around you both!!
But on the down side of doin that is: if she doesn't feel the same about you - can you handle the rejection but also stay friends with her?? It is a tough call but either way you are goin out of your mind thinking about it all and you need to kno one way or another so just ask her!!
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