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writes: I know this problem sounds weird, but I have met so many guys and they have given me there number. I was certain they would contact me, but they didn't contact me. I am 19 years old and been told by a lot of people i'm really good-looking. What's wrong with me that i don't have a boyfriend? Please help and how do i get a boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (19 December 2006):
 Also it's understandable. Put yourself in their shoes. You just met this girl, you like her and she's gorgeous so you ask her for her number, she gives it to you. Then you've got the difficult nerve racking task of actaully calling her. "What if she didn't like me that much? What if she doesn't pick up? What if she ignores me? What do I say to her? I don't want to say anything stupid or weird because then she'll think I'm a complee weirdo..." Do you see why they chickened out? Do you see why it's easier to just not bother calling? It's nothing personal against you so don't worry about it.
I'm so glad I'm not a guy. :)
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (19 December 2006):
Sometimes guys take your number to prove to themselves that they've still got it. "Yeah I got that girls' number. She's well fit" But they might have just done it for the challenge. Also because you're so good looking they might not have had the guts to call you. Or they found you so intimidatingly gorgeous that if they did start going out with you they couldn't keep up with the competition so to spare themselves they just didn't call.
To the males reading this: Am I talking nonsense or am right?
Don't take it to heart babe. These things happen sometimes. It doesn't mean you're undesireable or unattractive or not worthy of a boyfriend. Far from it. One day the right guy will come along and you'll be happier than you've ever been. Wait and see. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): You are only 19! It will happen when the time is right and when you least expect it. If you sit there waiting for it to happen it never will! go out there with your mates over the festive season and i bet you have a good time. Blokes take number and often forget. Don't let that get to you, relax and enjoy life!
Take care
xx
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