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writes:i am 17 year old female, and have been with my first girlfriend for 7 months. i never saw myself as gay but fell head over heels for her. i know i can fall for guys too so i guess im bisexual.problem is although i love her, she makes me really unhappy alot of the time, she is perfect, but cant give me everything i need because of her parents and they are more than against it and forbid her from seeing me. its really hard, and iv tried my best to be supportive as possible, but its really hard being let down alll the time constantly, and i know i could be happier with a guy who could give me everything.however i am in love with her and she is even more so for me. and totally dependant on me. and i dont want to hurt her feelings, shall i stick out the hard times till we go to university and be free of her parents? or should i end it and enjoy college life and move on? i also feel like iv lost certain aspects of my life since iv been with her as iv always put her first.(e.g friends, achievements). and she doesnt do the same for me at all, not that i expect her to but she expects me to for her, iv spoken to her about it and she got really upset, and threw the fact thats shes sacrificing her family for me in my face which she constantly does.i always encourage her to end it with me so she doesnt hurt her family and when she tries to i support her and am the strong one, but we always end up back together. i feel like its a selfish relationship, shes says amazingly nice things to me, but i think maybe they mask my view on what our relationship is really about. im really confused and would really really appreciate any help!xx
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (20 December 2006):
 i wish you the best. I wish that her parents would just understand that if she is gay then she is gay and her gf is you. Try talking with her and her parents at once and explain the situation. Maybe if they see how much you like her and how happy you make her than they shouldn't care. Good Luck.
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