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writes: My friends, people i see, have talked bad about this girl im talking to, behind closed doors. Most things they have said were hurtful and have gave her a bad rep but really she didnt deserve one. She didnt do most of these bad things people said but if i was to make her my girlfriend to the public what would happen to my reputation because i really have a good one. what do i do. i dont even like her that. much im confused help. Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (27 December 2005):
 Hi dear, hope u had fun this xmas.
First, you indicated in your posting that u dont even like this girl like that then why want her to be your girlfriend. The person should make your girlfriend is someone u either love or feel the connection to and have a longing to be with.
Second, its obvious u dont want to be seen with this girl in publi and u arent comfortable with her reputation even if u feel she doesnt deserve this,then why date her. if u truly like her then her reputation and yours wouldnt matter to you especially when u have realised that she s just an innocent victim.
Maybe its best to be her friend and show your support. take care now.
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