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writes: I met this guy a few years ago that I thought was totally annoying and I blew him off. Two years later he started dating my friend and we've started talking again but on a hi/bye basis. Until last week when we started talking on line and bumping into each other everywhere we go. Now I think I like him and totally regret what happened a few years age. Now My question is: Do I pursue my feelings for him and risk my friendship with his girlfriend? or Do accept the decision I made a few years ago? Reply to this Question
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reader, yea +, writes (28 December 2005):
We connect on this whole other level. I came out of this awful relationship just a few months ago and haven't been able to move on and live life the way i want to. He makes me feel free again. He makes me smile which never used to be an accomplishment.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Don't ruin your friendship because at the end of the day when the relationship doesn't work out it's your friend that you going to want to turn to, and if you steal her boyfriend, which is what you going to do if you do persue this guy, you will burn that friendship bridge.
My theory is chicks before dicks!
Let him go, there are plenty men out there, just don't go after your friends man, cause it just isn't worth it.
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reader, Hugglebuddy +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Ok well i'm sorry but the answer is you do not even think about going for it! He is with your friend now and your the one who gave up the chance you had your chance you blew it, your friend didn't so leave her be happy their are plenty of other guys around you don't need to have your friends. I know it's easier said than done but don't make the mistake of blowing someone of before you get to know them because thats how these situations occur. Good luck i hope you find someone and make it clear to him that you and him are just friends and wish your girlfriend luck! All the best :)x
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reader, llqueen +, writes (27 December 2005):
I definitely do not think you should go for it while he is with your friend. You are the one who passed up the chance, don't make your friend hurt because of your mistake. You can always tell your friend how you feel and see how she reacts. Or, just wait until they break up. But, don't steal your friends man behind her back. Thats just wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2005): now this one is tough and no matter what you do some one is bound to get hurt either you or your friend. Now to me it sounds to me as thow he does like you if hes shadly bumpin in to you and stuff them he does still like you but then again theres your friend to think about i always say boys come and go but friends will always stay by your side but them when a friend of mine started dating a guy i liked i flipped but and way in the long run you dont want to spoil ur friend ship but you want to be happy so tell your feind how you feel and if shes a good friend she wil understand and then if they split she wont mind if you two get back together
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