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writes:My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks because he agreed to stay in touch. Then one day I did not reply to a text he sent me. I left it three days. Then I textd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he texted me the next day to ask if I was ignoring him! If he didn't really care, why would he even bother asking me that? I replied with a joke because I didn't want him to think I still liked him. He hurt me cos I really liked him and would like him back. We texted each other every day after that until again I didn't text back. Then he texted me Christmas Day saying "Happy Chrimbo gorgeous! Hope you and your family have a gooden!" I didn't text him that day so it wasn't as if he was replying to a msg I'd sent first. Why did he do this? I haven't texted back because I don't know if he is messing me around or if he does still like me?
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reader, shania +, writes (28 December 2005):
 This is a classic symptom of a bloke who doesnt really want you but still gets a kick out of txting you because he likes the power he has over you,its as simple as that.He dumped you 4 weeks ago,come on, he has had plenty of time to change his mind and ask you back out again but he hasnt.This guy is using you emotionally and when you didnt respond to his last txts,his ego must of got deflated.Please dont build your hopes up with this guy,do you really want to be involved with a guy who plays mind games? Stop txting him and make a complete break.Find a man who wants to be with you,not just a txt buddy.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Well Lush
It's apprent that he still has deep feelings for you, otherwise he wouldn't text you so often, but don't run back to him just yet. He isn't going anywhere anytime soon cause if he had someone else he wouldn't reply to your messages.
He hurt you, don't let him get away with it, make him earn your love and respect.
and once you feel you can trust him with your heart again then draw him in slowly, carefully, tactfully.
Make him understand that if there were to be a relationship it will be on your terms.
Women have an advantage over men, we are seductresses, and if you play your game right you can have him eating out of the palm of your hand.
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