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... Send *ummyMummy a private message | | | *ummyMummy's profile:I'm 22 years of age and have just become a Mum for the first time! Bethany Molly was born on the 9/11/07 at 12.51pm weighing 8 pound 3. Apparently I'm a lucky so and so as my waters broke at 9am and only was in labour just under 3 hours. It still hurt though. But she is worth every bit of it though!
I'm not qualified to give out advice, but feel due to experiences I've had that I can give out a bit of friendly advice that might be helpful. I am currently thinking of doing a counselling course at home while my baby is young. Then once baby goes to nursery am hoping to do the uni course I was supposed to start this Sept just gone. I want to be a teacher :)
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I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship?
Q. I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship? Im 17 and have I do have a really clear understanding of love. I took a girl to homecoming this year and it was not to great. We were both immatu...
A. 13 June 2007: I dont know your financial situation but how about inviting her to dinner somewhere.
Maybe when you ask her say Would you like to come out on a date with me rather than just asking her to hang or something.
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I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: I cant comment on it being 'normal' as I dont think there is such a thing. For what ever reason you have not indulged in sex before now but if you seriously want to then you need to maybe make some time to go out and play.
Just be careful ... (read in full...)
Cheating on my boyfriend, now I'm pregnant by the other guy!
Q. I will try to make this quick ,I been with my Man for 8 and half years , We are suppose to get married this year, I love him to death and a part of me is so ready. Problem is for the first 5 years he was unfaithful, loving him so much I settle for ...
A. 12 June 2007: End it with the boyfriend if you cant leave this other guy alone. It isnt fair.
If you want to stay with the boyfriend you need to cut every tie with this other guy apart from him being your babies father.
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Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one?
Q. Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one? i am 14 and have only had one boyfriend and that was in primary school so i have never had a proper one my friends say i am pretty and look like barbie but i am...
A. 12 June 2007: You are only 14, so dont panic about having a boyfriend right now. I know that kinda sucks cause your mates have boyfriends, but at times they are more hassle then they are worth. I'm kidding.... a little. I'm sure my partner thinks i'm a pain ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her how much she means to me?
Q. i am a lesbian and i have just split up with my girlfriend. we only went out for 6 months but it was my first real relatonship. i think she wants to get back with her ex, although she says she will not. she says she is not ready for a serious ...
A. 12 June 2007: If she doesnt want to get in to a relationship right now then you should respect her choice. Be there and show her how you feel without going OTT. Maybe she'll realise she wants to be with you and something will happen, but if she's not wanting to ... (read in full...)
The woman I am crazy on has just found out she's pregnant with her ex's baby.
Q. Hi i am looking for advice about the situation i find myself in. I have recently been sleeping with a 22 year old woman {i am 17} and i have fell in love with her. It started off as a bit of fun but over time my feelings have changed. The problem is ...
A. 12 June 2007: And when the second child comes along he will probably be on the sceen more. May I ask if you lost your virginity to this lady?
have you asked her how she feels about you?... (read in full...)
Things were going great but now he seems to be giving me the cold shoulder, is he going off me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, now things were going great but now he seems to be giving me the cold shoulder. we have been going the caravan these past weeks an all the wanted to do was fish play snooker and do a crossword. he isnt tex...
A. 12 June 2007: Chat to him.
Ask him why the cold shoulder.
Just be a little prepared for something you may not want to hear.
It might be something tiny but you need to know as how he is treating you isnt fair
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What are the percentage of people who engage in oral and anal sex?
Q. hello everyone. i have been noticing a dramtic increase in anal and oral sex among teens. being an adolescent i see alot of my peers engaging in these activities. i know that the percentage is probably higher in adults. being a total virgin (in...
A. 12 June 2007: I have no idea of percentages of people engaging in anal and oral. There may be a website if you are really interested in finding out.
If they really aren't your thing then when it comes to the time you start becoming sexually active then tell you... (read in full...)
I'm worried about his depression and want to be there for him but I can't handle being his 'soul mate' while he is with someone else.
Q. It has been 2 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. We were together for 3.5 years and the break up came totally out of the blue. The reason was that despite being great together we had drifted apart and had different drives in life. We were ...
A. 12 June 2007: I think you need time for you. Yes you two one day can be the great mates you once were. But until you have gotten over the split and him being with other people it's not going to work. He may not be playing with your emotions purposely but that's ... (read in full...)
Firstly, is it normal to live with 2 roomates while in a serious relationship?
Q. Ok I have quite a few issues with my boyfriend of 4 years. Firstly, is it normal to live with 2 roomates while in a serious relationship? We could not afford a place of our own so we live with 2 (almost) complete strangers, and I don't see an end...
A. 12 June 2007: There isn't a time limit for when you should or shouldnt get engaged. It's down to different people and different relationships, but if you feel that maybe time for the next step has come around then have a chat with your partner.
I'm pregnant... (read in full...)
I've practically been disowned by my family.
Q. So I've practically been disowned by my family. You would think that I did something horrible, and in their eyes I did. The reality of it...I cussed. Now let me explain, I only ever use profanity with close friends, the ones I know don't care. Also, ...
A. 12 June 2007: Try and talk to her, or maybe another family member. Don't give in as nothing you have done is wrong. Apologise for whatever it is you said and hopefully your mum will back down eventually.
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I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship?
Q. I'm falling for girl who I became friends with, How do I move it from friendship to a relationship? Im 17 and have I do have a really clear understanding of love. I took a girl to homecoming this year and it was not to great. We were both immatu...
A. 12 June 2007: Try flirting with her and see if she returns it. Maybe tell her how you feel and ask her out to the cinema or whatever.
Good luck
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He got someone pregnant before we met and says he wants to stick by her but doesn't want to lose me!
Q. hiya.. ive been in a relationship 4 some time now, and recently found out that my boyfriend made somebody pregnant.. which isnt a big deal as it was before i met him..he was only recently told himself and has made the desicion 2 stick by her..again ...
A. 12 June 2007: hmmmmmm that's a toughie. Part of me thinks maybe this guy is playing you, but then there is a part that says maybe he's just doing what he thinks is right.
If he doesnt want to loose you he would want you to be a part of the child's life, no... (read in full...)
The woman I am crazy on has just found out she's pregnant with her ex's baby.
Q. Hi i am looking for advice about the situation i find myself in. I have recently been sleeping with a 22 year old woman {i am 17} and i have fell in love with her. It started off as a bit of fun but over time my feelings have changed. The problem is ...
A. 12 June 2007: If she has gone back to the father then cut ties and remember the good times. If she wants to be with you seriously then you need to think about being apart of 2 kids lives.
If it is just "fun" can it really continue while she is pregnant... (read in full...)
I am so unhappy with my life we moved to this desert and I absolutely hate it, my husband insisted on buying a house we can never afford so now what?
Q. don't know what to do, I am so unhappy with my life we moved to this desert and I absolutely hate it, my husband insisted on buying a house we can never afford so now what?...
A. 12 June 2007: I say you sit and chat about how you feel with your husband asap and see if can come to a compromise!
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I've been whoring it up so bad and now I'm getting a reputation and my friends all hate me now.
Q. Ive been single for two months now and have felt kinda lost without my ex. Im normally a really good girl that doesnt do anything wrong, thinks things through, and never makes mistakes. But lately Ive been drinking a lot with my frinds and making ...
A. 12 June 2007: There's no point in feeling bad about stuff that has been done. Just close the door on the one night stands and dont go there again of you feel so bad about doing it.
The reputation will take some time to shake off. Just keep your head high and... (read in full...)
All I wanted is for my boyfriend to move here to live with me because we live so far apart.
Q. All I wanted is for my boyfriend to move here to live with me because we live so far apart. However after researching into it there's just no way its going to happen. Then talking to him about it yesterday he confesses that he won't move away from ...
A. 12 June 2007: I think you have answered your own question yourself there. You know the relationship isnt going to work especially with an arranged marriage in the future.
It'll hurt like hell to walk away, and you may need time to heal but it'll be fairer o... (read in full...)
My 3rd cousin has told me he really likes me, would it be wrong to date him?
Q. Me and my 3rd cousin have known each other for 6 years when i met him i did like him but i didnt think anything of it cause i was only 11 we have only seen each other at family parties and we get on really well but recently hes told me he like me he ...
A. 12 June 2007: Its up to you and the guy at the end of the day. Here in the UK by law you can marry your cousin but a lot of people feel its a little close to home.
I personally wouldn't date a cousin, but then I've never fallen for any of them. Maybe sit down... (read in full...)
Since we have been married sex has become an afterthought and we are lucky to do it once a week...
Q. Hello, I have been with my wife for almost 4 years. We got married last year and are quickly approaching our one year anniversary. Before we got married we would have sex on a daily basis and sometimes twice a day! We would do it everywhere we...
A. 12 June 2007: Me and my partner are currently going through something a little similar as I'm pregnant. My sex drive has taken a little dive and it does cause issues.
What does your wife think or feel about it? Maybe one night when you are both in bed you shou... (read in full...)
Am I too needy? Does she maybe not understand my emotions? What?
Q. I'm horribly confused. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. At the end of both our leases were planning on moving out together. I'm really happy with our situation and finally feel comfortable being near someone so much....
A. 12 June 2007: We all go through a shit patch in life, or a bad year. I'm sorry to hear you have lost family members.
Sit and have a talk to your girlfriend about it. Explain to her about your emotions. Ask her if she feels you are being to needy. And explain ... (read in full...)
His behaviour has changed and everyone is telling me to break it off with him... but I can't!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with my boyfriend. I would do anything for him. Over the last 8 months or so he has been under house arrest while attending college 2 hours away. I spent every weekend driving to see him even though I myself have a v...
A. 12 June 2007: He sounds like a bit of a plonker. Wanting to do what he wants to do but not wanting you to go out and have any fun.
Well I say screw him. Not literally obviously.
If you cant live your life then whats the point?! It's not fair he can go o... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's not... any tips for our relationship?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and we are thinking about having sex but i'm kinda worried because i'm a virgin and he's not what if he breaks up with me because i can't full feel his needs?...
A. 12 June 2007: Hey :)
Talk to your boyfriend about your worries. You wont be perfect at it your first time but you are never as bad as you think you are. Talk through with him about what he likes and what you think you like. If he's decent he will not dump you... (read in full...)
I love sex... is this a problem?!
Q. Okay, this is going to sound very stupid to some people but, urm... I think I might be a bit mad about sex, you know? I always think about doing it, and I mean ALWAYS. I'm not really worried about, but is it normal? Also, I was sat down on the sofa ...
A. 12 June 2007: Perfectly normal. You have a high sex drive and judging by the your age I guess it is a pretty newish thing to you. Talk to your boyfriend about it and you may find he's just as mad about it as you. I had a very high sex drive till I feel pregnant, ... (read in full...)
How can he commit to his love yet keep the family sane and see them grow up without any hurt or loss of love?
Q. It is not for me, a friend, who has a dear and truly loving family. He has met and fallen in love with a lady, yet he is still married and feels nothing for his wife, yes they get along, no arguing etc. 2 lovely daughters and a nephew as well. How ...
A. 12 June 2007: Just because the guy splits with the wife doesnt mean he will loose the kids. I haven't been married myself so have never been in this guys place but my parents separated when I was 9 and I have 2 younger sisters aswell. It hurt like hell but what ... (read in full...)
My ex husband wants me back and my ex boyfriend wants me. Do I settle for security with my husband, or excitement with my boyfriend?
Q. My ex husband wants me back and my ex boyfriend wants me. Do I settle for security with my husband, or excitement with my boyfriend? They are both great guys! How do I break up and hurt one of them? I am so tormented!...
A. 12 June 2007: Oooooo that's a toughie.
I'd write both the guys names down on a sheet of paper and write pros and cons for being with each. It sounds a nasty way but I find that helps me think things through in all sorts of situations.
I hope this works out f... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are in our first proper relationship we've been going out for 4 months now and things were going really well but within the space of week everything's gone pear shaped.
Q. My girlfriend and I are in our first proper relationship we've been going out for 4 months now and things were going really well but within the space of week everything's gone pear shaped. she said that it was all due to exams and she's stressed out ...
A. 12 June 2007: First love rules doesn't it.
She may be the "one" but only time will tell. I remember taking my exams, and they were very stressful. All you can do is be there for her, maybe help her revise or text her Good Luck before exams to let her know you... (read in full...)
I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...
A. 12 June 2007: I can understand where you are coming from when you say she's known you a long time and should know you wouldn't do what her ex did. I went out with a guy when I was 18 who was a "friend" before we got together and he turned out to be a big jerk and ... (read in full...)
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